I read somewhere that an INFJ knows what is logical, reasonable and most likely realistic but even knowing this, seems to throw it all away for their wild fantasies, dreams or ideals. I definitely know it's true for me and it puts me in a bad place. Especially when you like someone you can't be with, and all they do is occupy your head. Instead of being reasonable and moving on my head just wants to keep on dreaming about them and creating grande romantic scenes that I know will never happen.
So very tragic.
It doesn't help that INFJ's are quite the lonely personality
How do you deal with it ?