Here's the thing, INFJs are constantly described as having great insight into people, and i agree with that as I can always sense when a person has bad intentions or is very superficial. And if those people try to put on a 'nice' face to the world, I find those people REPULSIVE. And by that adjective I mean I hate talking to them and just wish I could tell everyone the rotten core I see in them!! However, I always have to keep these feelings completely to myself because other people don't understand and when I try to tell them or explain to them they think I am being overly harsh and critical almost a bit of a bitch!!!
So i was just wondering how other INFJs deal with it, because I just cannot imagine that every other INFJ has to deal with the same amount of frustration I experience when I encounter 'fakely nice' people.
And also, how is it that other people just miss it when people are being fake?? I just don't understand because it is so obvious to me...is it that they do not value authenticity or is it that they dismiss it because as long as a person contributes to an easy going social atmosphere, then any 'fakeness' is forgivable? I dont understand please help!!!