Guess the type??

I went on a date with a guy last year. I don't think I've ever met anyone like him and I truly didn't know what to make of him. Our date lasted just 1 1/2 hours. He took me out to dinner on a Monday and we also had a few drinks. I cut the date short because I was truly tired and I didn't want to drink anymore due to the impression I might make. Though, i was interested in "dating" him again..it never happened. We emailed one another and both said "gushing" things about the other but like i said, nothing happened after that. For some reason I always felt "bad about it." I started to think things like, "i hurt his feelings by cutting the date short." Of course, this just might be me, an INFP who blames herself for what goes wrong. Anyway, months passed..I then wrote a "review" of him (and a good one!) on a dating site about him. I was hoping to thaw him out. He finally sent me an email which i promptly responded to. I then asked him on a date and offered to pay. A week went by and he finally responded by accepting (but no date yet) but stated that he's paying. I will attempt to describe him.

He's very intimidating. He's some kinda top manager in his company, from Scotland. He's very talkative and talked non-stop. I tried to listen but had trouble paying attention. I guess I was intimidated . I do remember him talking about a younger g/f which he seemed disgusted by her display of exhibitionism and shallowness. He's definitely "E", or so it seemed, very bubbly and "life is worth living thingy". He also described a procedure that he had to undergo (this alarmed me greatly, does he realize doctor's operate on people to make money??) with such a trusting nature i was truly alarmed. I haven't the slightest idea what to make of him. Usually I get a feel for a person, but with him, nothing. I also thought later perhaps he was nervous around me, hence all the talking? What do ya'll think?

ENTP or ENTJ is my guess. How did he dress? What were the non-verbal cues? Tell me about the para-language and I'd probably be able to get a better idea :)

Originally Posted by bigtex1989

ENTP or ENTJ is my guess. How did he dress? What were the non-verbal cues? Tell me about the para-language and I'd probably be able to get a better idea :)

Thanks for the response.. Not sure what you mean by "paralanguage". He was dressed "professionally". He may even have had a suit on, not sure. Like I said, he was very professional and gentlemanly anyway. He joked a bit about getting randy in his "kilt". We certainly have great conversation on the internet. It's possible he's a "T" cause I'm not getting a good feel for him. I have no idea how organized he is but i'm thinking he is as he is a big manager in his company. That is what he does, go from place to place to get the company started/rolling. An organizer would have to be that person. He doesn't like to think "negative" and is strictly positive person. I would say this one character trait probably irritated me more than any other as this puts pressure on me to be always positive?? Impossible for an INFP! The other thing that irritated me was that I couldn't get a good feel for the person. So many times I have felt in the past that "this person likes me, this person doesn't" and i was dead wrong! They were just being "nice." I don't know..i thought maybe he was being nice. I had conflicting feelings about him. Just wanted to go on another date cause I thought he may be an ENFJ, which is a good fit for me.

Paralanguage is all the communication that isn't verbal. I still can't decide between ENTP and ENTJ