First of all I really apologize if this is not the topic for this forum, and for my bad english, and for this really long and unordered text.But I can't sleep anymore because inside of me is so much anger because of this.My friend is calling me every day and talking to me for at least 2 hours.And I can't stand it anymore.I try to avoid it-no efect, and I try to tell her that I don't have so much time for her but she finds some excuses or start to qouestion every my excuse. Or when I really can't stand it anymore and ignore her for a week she tell me that she thinks that I hate to speake whit her and like to speake whit everyone else just not whit her.And we are friends for 5 years and we are really good friends, not perfect but best yes.
I'm angry on her, and angry on my lying and pretending.And every time the telephone rings I fell so much anger even when I want to talk that time whit her,I can't help myself to not become mad and frustrated and it's honting me all the time even when she don't call me I just wait to telephone to ring.Like those mouse who were taught to hate some sound,and when they heare it they become frustrated.xD
So please can you give me some advices how to tell her that I don't want nor like to talk that often. But excuse like I don't have time, I'm studying I wouldn't be at home doesn't work because she tells me that I "must" call her after when I come back or like you wouldn't study all day and when I don't call her she calls me again hhh.how to act so tha she can get that I don't want to talk whit her but on the way that
I'm not rude. ??
We don't see each other that often ( like once on 2-3 weeks) but that's because of my school otherwise
we see e.o. more often but that don't efect on lees calling me she calls me then even more.
and how to manage to not have so much anger and not so be annoyed because of this?
do you have problems whit these extroverted people? xD(I know that she isn't like this just because of E, but i mean do you have problems whit people because of that E who can be the hole day whit people and don't get tired,hh)I also have other friend who is E and I talk to her often but it's just different because I can tell her when I don't want to talk whit her whithout any explications.
If you need more information read the text bellow but it's really long.I again apologize but I don't know anymore what to do and who to ask I don't want that she finds out because she would be angry if somebody tell her that i think all this xD