One Thing

While in the wake of someone getting to know you or knows you but can't put a finger on how you present yourself, just when all else seemed to have failed, conceptions clouded, what is one thing about your personality you hope people take away?

I'm sorry, but could you rephrase that?

Do you mean the one personality trait I want to get rid of, or the personality trait I want people to remember me for - a sort of "pure essence" of my being?

My understanding. It can carry far you see. It can mean Im trust worthy, able to comprehend their language, and needs.. a good person to talk to about personal stuffs.

He's asking what you want people to understand about your personality, if they take nothing else away from your interaction with them.

Unfortunately, they are probably taking away the notion that I'm not really interested in their company. I'm afraid it takes me a while for me to both open up to and care about new acquaintances, and I don't do one night stands either... so after a brief introduction, "lack of interest" is the vibe I tend to give off.

Originally Posted by Ungweliante

I'm sorry, but could you rephrase that?

Do you mean the one personality trait I want to get rid of, or the personality trait I want people to remember me for - a sort of "pure essence" of my being?

I mean, after someone has thoroughly learned so much about you, what is the one key component about yourself above all details you hope they remember - the essence of your being.

That they always think of me as a good person, or a good friend.

I want them to feel that I am tranquil, healing and harmless. Unfortunately, I get offended too easily to give off the pure, peaceful zen-like vibe I wish to project. :(
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A person people can count on.

I would like to be remembered as somebody who altered such person's perception on life in general. But as you probably said, I'm not sure how I managed to do it. Perhaps that change of perception was a reflection of me on how I was as a person -- regardless any specific trait. I was important to her or him in some kind of long lasting way but he or she wouldn't notice it until I was gone. That person probably took me way for granted before that but it turned out to be a pitfall in disguise. Good riddance indeed.

I want to be remembered as a sly uncanny bitch.