Bad boys vs good boys

So we all think that bad boys have the edge but i beg to differ why because good boys have a few gifts that bad boys doesn't respect , love peace of mind ,Of course from social point of view they are both equal bad boys have the edge that they get girls but good boys win sincere friends anyway lets discuss

We win eventually.
When girls have been fed up with the 'bad boys', they want stability and affection. Which we provide.

Of course, how long it takes the girl to be fed up with the bad boys is up to the girl and the extent of the badness of said boys.

I'm going out with a girl my age (18) and she doesn't really trust men, with the exclusion of myself.

yeah but some times they only used us as leverage .Not all are like that but some are . How to deal with that?

I've never been into the bad boy type. I think this relates to my father, who treated my mom and I with respect. I prefer the nice guys, because there is so much to have fun with someone with whom I can trust, respect, and truly be myself around with, let go, relax.. they're so much more down-to-earth, kind, humble- all the qualities I admire in a person. What's there not to like?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I consider him to be a bad boy (various reasons).. I told him initially when we got to know each other that I prefer nice guys and wasn't kidding.

The nice guys that girls hate, is the 'suck-ups'.
Those that become too dependant on the girls, who don't form their own opinion.

Strength is attractive in men (mentally and physically), and suck-ups are weak.

Bad boys are the opposite of this, being so independent and sure of their own opinion that they end up being 'bad'.

If you want a read, there's this: Why Nice Guys Can’t Get Girls The Definitive Self Improvement Blog - BrianKim.net

I liked this girl who i asked out but rejected me because she thought i was a nice boy it hurted me very badly then still people around me urge me to change but i like the way i am the point is that while there are some girls who like you there are a lots who doesn't .If you talk about scoring bad boys win but you get the girls for marriage so you win in the long run

Originally Posted by MisterJordan

The nice guys that girls hate, is the 'suck-ups'.
Those that become too dependant on the girls, who don't form their own opinion.

Strength is attractive in men (mentally and physically), and suck-ups are weak.

Bad boys are the opposite of this, being so independent and sure of their own opinion that they end up being 'bad'.

If you want a read, there's this: Why Nice Guys Can’t Get Girls The Definitive Self Improvement Blog - BrianKim.net

I think this would depend on our definition of bad boy, no?

I DEFINITELY find sucking up types of behavior a little...

A guy can have his own opinions/beliefs and not be a pushoever, and still be a nice guy, me thinks!

cool nice opinion

I never got the reason why people love the bad boy

never ever

i can't comprehend it

so lost to it


good boys ALL THE WAY!

Originally Posted by strawberryLola

I think this would depend on our definition of bad boy, no?

I DEFINITELY find sucking up types of behavior a little...

A guy can have his own opinions/beliefs and not be a pushoever, and still be a nice guy, me thinks!

The morale of this story, is to be confident and independent while remaining considerate and polite. Which might sounds like a contradiction...

DO
- Always tell the truth to the person you care about.
- When you get up for a drink, ask other people if they want one.
- Hold the door open.
- Offer to carry things for people.
- Don't swear too much...
- Be willing to talk about their emotions.

BUT ALSO DO
- Don't be afraid to make criticism, you can't idolise women, no one's perfect.
- Your ideas are awesome, you should enforce them on others.
- Your taste in music is superiour to everyone else's, you should verbally bash others for theirs.
- Don't talk about your own emotions.


Make sense?

EDIT: Basically, become a polite INJT, because that works for me.