i feel like a crazy person!! why do things get to me so much?

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    i feel like a crazy person!! why do things get to me so much?

    ive been hurt by a lot of friends in the past and i just cant seem to get over it and i dont know why. im a very well -balanced individual iam very content and happy but whenever i think abnout the way people have treated me im filled with rage, hurt and i feel so upset. an incident that happened about six years ago iam still not able to forget and i think about ti regularly is this normal, the incident was something that happened where a friend really let me down. i can forgive i just cant forget and now these people are still in my life and they have no idea that iam thinking these things and have probably forgotten about it, but i just feel so angry and upset and i feel like this every day. why do i feel this its torcher, am i just evry sensitive? is this normal ? am i crazy?



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    Some people are just very sensitive, and it may have something to do with your preferences. Have you ever done the MBTI test and, if so, did you get a very high F percentage? Either way, you are certainly not crazy - a crazy person wouldn't ask if they were nor would they be aware that they were crazy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skycloud86 View Post
    Some people are just very sensitive, and it may have something to do with your preferences. Have you ever done the MBTI test and, if so, did you get a very high F percentage? Either way, you are certainly not crazy - a crazy person wouldn't ask if they were nor would they be aware that they were crazy.

    my result was intj, but im only senstive when it comes to my one friend, can you see a reason why this could be? i keep going over things in my head i need someone else's perspective so i can see clearly again.

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    If you feel crazy you likely aren't. The craziest people are those who don't feel that their behaviour is abnormal.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexa View Post
    my result was intj, but im only senstive when it comes to my one friend, can you see a reason why this could be? i keep going over things in my head i need someone else's perspective so i can see clearly again.
    Could there be some unresolved issue regarding you and this friend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by skycloud86 View Post
    Could there be some unresolved issue regarding you and this friend?

    theres manu unresolved issues and i just cant forget i dont know what to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skycloud86 View Post
    Could there be some unresolved issue regarding you and this friend?
    I believe this could most likely be the case. Because from the two INTJ's I know personally, they'd never do this unless this was something unresolved, some conflict they haven't figured out or relationship things not fixed/sorted through/finished.

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    Quote Originally Posted by walkawaysun09 View Post
    I believe this could most likely be the case. Because from the two INTJ's I know personally, they'd never do this unless this was something unresolved, some conflict they haven't figured out or relationship things not fixed/sorted through/finished.

    i feel really let down by this particular friend and i understand the reasons she does what she does i just cant forgive her, its like i expect her to be a better friend than what she is every capable of being because her priorities are very different to mine, but i dont know why i feel this way??

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    Maybe you need to meet some new people, that will not hurt you.

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    Six years is a long time to be holding on to something. My take on this. I think you have idolized this particular friend, put her on a pedestal in a way worshipped her. You had very high, too high expectations of her and when she let you down. BOOM. Now you are holding on to unforgiveness, still holding on to her and not letting her go.


 
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