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This is a discussion on What pisses you off about everyone? within the General Psychology forums, part of the Topics of Interest category; Originally Posted by Bear Your signature makes me think 2W0X1 or 3E8X1. Anyway, I have to agree a little 1.1D ...
i find that what pisses me off most in other people usually happens to me IRL: passive-agressiveness, cattiness (and not just from women), zero-sum thinking, duplicitousness, smug self-righteousness. somehow i don't see as much of it online, or i can write it off: "meh, crazy people." but in person, these things make me rage.
how do you deal with your anger IRL? do you manifest it outwardly? i handle it better on some days than on others...unfortunately, i tend to let it build up until it explodes. i've had some mini explosions recently and i hated how unsettled i felt/feel. which brings me to:
When people see other people as concepts, instead of as real people.
I do it too. haaaaaaa. It's hard to NOT do, after all.
Okay I'll go, I get pissed when
People stand infront of you and overexplain themselves to you
When my coworker actually is covinced that he is my Dwight Shrute
When people interrupt me, UNLESS it is a female I have strong interest in. THEN BY ALL MEANS, INTERRUPT ME WHENEVER YOU WANT, FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE I MEAN IT!
I am too.
They do not accept perceived imperfection in others.
Just like I have a hard time with it.
They envy people who do 'seem' perfect.
It's beautiful to see us being critical, but at the same time, where's the line between being supportive and destructive? Or just letting it be?
Either way, when deciding to cope, I believe love is a good substitute.
Last edited by Linesky; 04-30-2010 at 06:33 AM.
I'm a very cynical person most of the time. So everything.
In one single word - Sin
My TFA's about this topic? The number one thing that really pisses me off about other people even as a kid is conformity. Especially, the type of conformity where people are mean-spirited and sheepish.
I even hate it when someone follows me just to follow.
I don't mind the type of conformity where people rebel and stand up for others- bra burning, chucking bottles at the police and all. j/k :)
Here's a very specific thing that pisses me off.
When you're walking on a sidewalk (or in a grocery store or wherever) and the group of people in front of you just...stops. So they can talk and regroup or whatever. They block the path and appear to be oblivious to what they are doing. I guess it's due to being very unaware? Everybody seems to do this.
Lol... I guess it would be the way people respond to it when things are at their worst, or routine and structure goes out the window. Some people really know how to revolve everything around how many stories they hear everybody keeps up with and neglect duties they hold others to like sticking to what they say. Oh well if they get dethroned when others realize their potential or that they have independence of thought while left to their own devices. :) Yet there are plenty who get to know others and don't let a person's life at the moment cloud how they treat them who get ostracized for it and not many people will do a damn thing. Fitting in is ok if people just happen to get along really well and have values in common but it gets tiring watching some people make fools out of themselves trying to be all things to all people.