small talk

gvsunde

anyone get tired of people talking to much about something simple?

Surreal Breakfast

Depends on what you mean .

NephilimAzrael

Certainly, but I also get tired of people who fail to elaborate concisely.

Surreal Breakfast

I don't think that I do, since I watch Seinfeld ya know

gvsunde

there is one thing that i believe a lot of extraverted individuals express and that is som kind of complain, which i feel gets thrown at me, and there is usually not an answer to it. it irritates me. its usually expressions like: "oh!, i'm so tired of that girl!", "oh! i havent studied enough, " "oh, i cant believe he's like that"... im very introverted and im a good listener and i am motivated by helping people, but ofcourse i get irritaded by people exspressing their little concerns, it's like i dont have enough to think about.

Stickynotee

Dude.

First of all.

Whats the point of this thread?

Your basically saying. "Im tired of people posting something stupid and simple"

THATS WHAT YOUR DOING!

Second, don't swear, especially on the TOPIC of this thread.

NephilimAzrael

Stickynote's point.. Seconded.

Though him swearing is not the point, the fact is. Composing an ineffective topic and failing to make elaborations for oneself is just a form of whining.

Stickynotee

:)

Thanks Azrael.

And, your second point is exactly true.

Thats just like calling someone stupid because they "suck" at math, and the next thing you know, they are on the honour roll, and you aren't.

Look at what your doing before accusing anyone else.

snail

Still, I can relate. Sometimes people have very trivial things that they want to discuss just for the sake of filling in the gaps between real ideas that they would rather discuss but can't articulate. Extraverts tend to think of silence as "awkward" and end up chattering purposelessly, thinking it is impolite not to do so.

gvsunde

the point of this thread is to possibli gain recognition of how others feel about it.

i don't see it as if i am saying "Im tired of people posting something stupid and simple"

i can stop swearing. ok. sorry about that.
maybe you misunderstand. And i am suspecting that you are not trying hard enough to see the case from my point of view.

you misunderstand.. im not talking about how tired i am of reading posts and like that.. no.. im talking about in everyday life, like when im at school and have to listen to a lot of draining talk. and there i keep thinking "get to the point, get to the point", and "can we please keep at the subject", and dont talk about what happened on TV the other day. in other words i guess i discust small talk, small talk which directs no certain way but to the trash can.