Girls have the hots for estps

**donkeybals** · 02-08-2012 10:38 PM

Just been browsing the boards here, and it seems like you guys (the males ones) have them crawling all over you. So basically what I'm getting at here is teachhh me.

That is all. :)

**GTBean** · 02-09-2012 05:28 AM

What clicked for me was to not care about the outcome. When I stopped trying to get women and just started "hanging out" with them. Instead of wooing I was just making sure that I myself had a good time while in pretty company, with no expectations. Apparently that was enough to have all the girls I was around throwing themselves at me.

Or maybe I'm just charming. THE WORLD MAY NEVER KNOW.

**Derosa90** · 02-09-2012 09:57 AM

I agree with GT. Women smell desperation from a mile away. Don't worry too much about impressing people. Enjoy yourself and the time spent with others, and you'll be steps ahead.

**Adventure** · 02-09-2012 07:27 PM

Agree.

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**paper lilies** · 02-09-2012 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by Adventure

Agree.

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How you solved that whole ten character issue...
I lol'd.

**Dark Romantic** · 02-09-2012 07:59 PM

I'd have to agree. The less invested you are in the outcome, the more successful you're going to be, for various reasons.

**donkeybals** · 02-09-2012 11:56 PM

*Strokes Chin* I am but a young grasshopper. XD

And I agree also, perhaps I should refrain from saying I love you and trying to get them to marry me on the first date. :P

**pericles** · 02-10-2012 05:10 AM

Don't even try to get them, just do your best to enjoy your life.

P.S. I don't have girls crawling all over me, Im just good at attracting the ones I want, and I'm content with that.

**Trebek8** · 02-10-2012 11:20 AM

I don't know why I get such good luck with women. Maybe its my looks, or charming personality, or both. I'm German and have gotten positive remarks on how sharp and nice my eyes look.

ESTP's generally have an orange aura as well. Look up what it means, I'd hate to type it out.

**donkeybals** · 02-10-2012 01:34 PM

Ah yes good looks and a charming personality. That could be it, however I'm really lacking in the looks department, and my personality sucks. So f*ck man. :| Would buying them more flowers and chocolates work? :P

Btw @Trebek8 that color thing is interesting!