[workaholicsanon]

ESTPs and INFJs are so different. You guys are social bundles of energy, we are slothlike recluses.

what do you ESTPs think of us INFJs? What do you like or dislike about us?

[TreeBob]

ESTPs and INFJs are so different. You guys are social bundles of energy, we are slothlike recluses.

what do you ESTPs think of us INFJs? What do you like or dislike about us?

So far I like everything and dislike nothing. I wish I could speak negatively but I can't. INFJ and ESTP get on very very well together.

[decided]

I like ESTPs a lot online. We seem to skip our primary functions and get along using our Fe and Ti. That's trickier to do in RL. That Ni/Se primary function combo can be a clash sometimes, unless we happen to find the other's expressions of those functions interesting.

Do you know many INFJ in RL TreeBob?

[TreeBob]

I like ESTPs a lot online. We seem to skip our primary functions and get along using our Fe and Ti. That's trickier to do in RL. That Ni/Se primary function combo can be a clash sometimes, unless we happen to find the other's expressions of those functions interesting.

Do you know many INFJ in RL TreeBob?

You know it's hard to say. I can pick out INFP in real life cause I dated one. I have one guy friend who is an INFJ and we have gotten along great since we first met 6 months ago. He is closer to the border though. Either way he is great. He tends to laugh at me and my jokes. I get the feeling he would never say anything I say but is thinking it ;)

[workaholicsanon]

what about the INFJ social awkwardness, reclusivity, contentment with just sitting there, and the way we can be spacey? How about our slow walking pace?

How do you guys see that? Often I feel like a retard next to an ESTP.

[Bluebird]

same =_= I guess this is why many infjs are attracted to estps.. coz we don't have what they have

[Korvyna]

My mom is an INFJ and our biggest problem is our failure to communicate. My dad is an ISTP and he understands me perfectly, but my mom is another story. I've never met an INFJ my age, they've all been my parents age...and for some reason that generation gap and personality type clash for me. The older INFJs that I have dealt with seem very stubborn and set in their ways.... And that might not just be an INFJ, that probably goes for any personality type.

I wish I knew an INFJ around my age so I could see if that same communication failure was there. My ex is an ENFJ and that was disastrous.

[decided]

How old are you Korvyna?

[Mind Marauder]

My mom is an INFJ and our biggest problem is our failure to communicate. My dad is an ISTP and he understands me perfectly, but my mom is another story. I've never met an INFJ my age, they've all been my parents age...and for some reason that generation gap and personality type clash for me. The older INFJs that I have dealt with seem very stubborn and set in their ways.... And that might not just be an INFJ, that probably goes for any personality type.

I wish I knew an INFJ around my age so I could see if that same communication failure was there. My ex is an ENFJ and that was disastrous.

Well, I can't be there in real life, but if you ever want to talk about something I'm assuming I'd be fairly close to your age.

[Korvyna]

Well, I can't be there in real life, but if you ever want to talk about something I'm assuming I'd be fairly close to your age.

I even had troubles with an INFJ online, so it wasn't just a real life thing. I'm 28, so anything 35 or younger is in my age range.