So I feel like taking a shot at what women want(as short a list as possible-I will only list the ones that I think are very important).....
1.Most of all someone who makes them feel good (it doesn't matter how you pull this off)
2.A man that they respect (leadership,dominance,intelligence, self-control, style,confidence, etc)
3.A challenge (what comes easy has no value-that's why the hot and cold style works)
When it comes to women it's not as easy as "just be yourself". Personally from what I have seen women don't give a crap about who you really are, just who you seem to be. They don't want to hear about your problems, your "boring" life, your morals, your history,your friends or basically anything about you(that's why the mysterious guy thing works). They just want the 3 things above. They will look for the rest ONLY if they want a long lasting relationship with you. And that is sad. Feel free to argue with me but that is what I have noticed and also that is the thing that gave me succes with women. It does not matter if you are a great guy if you don't seem like much.
My opinion is that the ESTPs have huge succes because they seem to be the guys that can show them a good time. And yeah I am an ESTP that is no pimp. Maybe I will become one (truth is I have huge potential- I know myself when I am in a good mood), but I still shatter the myth that ESTPs are born with 10 women in bed.