Most of my life I've been having troubles with my mom, who's an ESTP. Now that I'm a teenager, all the annoying things she does are magnified. She acts like I'm not trustworthy, even though I've never lied to her. She treats me like a little kid, but expects me to act like an adult. She plays the blame game; I don't think she's ever admitted something is her fault. Her standard response to anything I do that she doesn't like is to threaten me, which happens about three times a day. I find that the only way to avoid having her carry out her threat is to do exactly what she wants, to the letter, exactly when she asks for it to be done. Sometimes she seems to get mad at me without having asked me to do anything yet, and when she is in a bad mood, everyone in my family suffers the consequences.
Does anyone have any tips for me to deal with her? The only solution I've found is to move out.