Not quite sure but I believe I was ESTP most of my childhood & teenage years, at least up until I became a mother. I then seemed to have gotten in touch with my feeling side. I've taken the test and came out both F/T, not sure where this puts me but I can say this....I was a monster child, or what people would consider a fearless, in your face, ADHD, yet very intelligent and curious kid. I would also get comments from my parents such as, "don't you have feelings?", "you never cry at sad movies." I honestly thought there was something wrong with me because I was a little girl who never cried. Even a spanking wouldn't break me. I played in the backyard with a life jacket yet we didn't have a pool (I would hijack the neighbor's pool), had my stomach pumped out twice because I curiously ate things, told people off, mom had a leash for me while shopping, I mooned people, beat up kids and talked incessantly. Just an all around fearless child. Didn't conform to anything, yet never disrespectful, just didn't give a crap.
I was extremely popular in school, dated a lot of guys and worked out 2-3 hours a day as a teen and young woman. I was a professional singer up at age 18, always comfortable with myself and confident. Super big humor, sometimes pushing things too far. Very much into my looks. I enjoy being super sexy and lots of attention, especially from my physical appearance. I enjoy making people laugh, I love to entertain. .
However, I had my first child at 21 and since then I've been in touch with my feelings and a super friendly person. I am married to an ESFJ man, who thinks I'm too independent and unemotional for a woman, yet super fun, inviting and warm. He complains that although I love sex, I don't cuddle or touch enough. I feel like a dude when it comes to emotions. All of my best friends are ESTP.
We had some issues the past year, went to a great marriage counselor and it was he who introduced us to Personality Types but he swears I'm ESFP. My mother is INFJ, biological father is ESFP. I am my father's twin in appearance and mannerism although he didn't raise me, my ISFJ Dad raised me. So my biological Dad is more liberal than I am. I am conservative when it comes to certain subjects.
Now I am a successful real estate broker, I love negotiating. It's where I excel.
This thread is long enough......Is it possible to switch personality types? Possible to be both?
This thread was recently deleted which is why I posted it again, I had some really great replies from some of you that I really appreciated.