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ESTP Forum - The Doers Thread, ENFP with ESTP in SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators; i just found out this girl, who I was talking to, is an ENFP and she was pretty coo. But ...
i just found out this girl, who I was talking to, is an ENFP and she was pretty coo. But later got frustrated of me whether or not if I liked her or not.
I thought we were just friends girl!!! oh well.
Maybe it's my cynacism after so many years of typing on forums with intuitive types, but this odd and basic question must be asked. Did any of these people being alluded to as ESTP, actually confirm their type or is this thread based on assumptions and possibilities that you could be dealing with an ESTP based on your knowledge of type?
read the tread a bit and you might find an answer to your question.
Post 36, thanks. So now that Luige has made that point, do most of you know whether the people you are referring to are indeed ESTPs?
I thought this thread was about ENFPs and ESTPs?
I thought that an ENFP male dated a ESTP female and it didn't work.
So you're saying that, can a ENFP recognize whether or not he or she is talking to a ESTP?
oh btw, the ENFP girl is no longer talking to me for some reason... It seems like she cut all ties with me.
!!! Wtf !!!
Dammit, its crazy because why would anyone get mad or stop talking to a person/me just because they/I don't "like" them as a potential "partner"?
Dang, maybe I wasn't communicating with her or something. Or maybe I wasn't feeling what she was feeling. Or maybe I just didn't like her. I mean, I like her, or liked her, and I wanna do her but, to be in a actual relationship is kinda bleh to me.
Sorry, i'm thinking out loud.
I just don't understand why would anyone stop talking/stop being friendly......
I thought this thread was about ENFPs and ESTPs?
I thought that an ENFP male dated a ESTP female and it didn't work.
So you're saying that, can a ENFP recognize whether or not he or she is talking to a ESTP?
oh btw, the ENFP girl is no longer talking to me for some reason... It seems like she cut all ties with me.
!!! Wtf !!!
Dammit, its crazy because why would anyone get mad or stop talking to a person/me just because they/I don't "like" them as a potential "partner"?
Dang, maybe I wasn't communicating with her or something. Or maybe I wasn't feeling what she was feeling. Or maybe I just didn't like her. I mean, I like her, or liked her, and I wanna do her but, to be in a actual relationship is kinda bleh to me.
Sorry, i'm thinking out loud.
I just don't understand why would anyone stop talking/stop being friendly......
Well that isn't really true I think he just missunderstood (but honestly as I was reading it and got to the point where he found out she was an ENFP I wasn't surpised at all) Both my sister and I are ENFP's and her ex (they didn't end it my parents did, long story) who is an ESTP and they were doing really well. and I am with an ESTP now (or at least I am about 99% sure, I haven't had him take the quiz, I'll wait until we have been dating a little longer) and it seems that we are like perfect like, this sounds corny but we "compleate" eachother it's a really good place for EP's to be....
I'm at school right now and we are about to get out, I will finish this thought when I get home
I thought this thread was about ENFPs and ESTPs?
I thought that an ENFP male dated a ESTP female and it didn't work.
So you're saying that, can a ENFP recognize whether or not he or she is talking to a ESTP?
oh btw, the ENFP girl is no longer talking to me for some reason... It seems like she cut all ties with me.
!!! Wtf !!!
Dammit, its crazy because why would anyone get mad or stop talking to a person/me just because they/I don't "like" them as a potential "partner"?
Dang, maybe I wasn't communicating with her or something. Or maybe I wasn't feeling what she was feeling. Or maybe I just didn't like her. I mean, I like her, or liked her, and I wanna do her but, to be in a actual relationship is kinda bleh to me.
Sorry, i'm thinking out loud.
I just don't understand why would anyone stop talking/stop being friendly......
That's the one issue with some people sometimes
Epically ENFP Enneagram type fours such as myself.
we tend to move on a bit better than most other ENFP's, and we move on pretty harshly. Espically if we got offended somehow.
Post 36, thanks. So now that Luige has made that point, do most of you know whether the people you are referring to are indeed ESTPs?
No problem.
and I understand your frustration about intutives trying trying to just "guess" the personality type of some other than just getting them to take the test, but it's not exactly that easy in real life. You can't just put a test in front of everybody. Plus being an ENFP espically gives us an advantage to understanding people.
I've guessed 2/3 personality correctly so far (they took the test, and I predicted before hand their results) This was the only one I've gotten wrong so far. Probably due to my emotional blindness.
Well that isn't really true I think he just missunderstood (but honestly as I was reading it and got to the point where he found out she was an ENFP I wasn't surpised at all) Both my sister and I are ENFP's and her ex (they didn't end it my parents did, long story) who is an ESTP and they were doing really well. and I am with an ESTP now (or at least I am about 99% sure, I haven't had him take the quiz, I'll wait until we have been dating a little longer) and it seems that we are like perfect like, this sounds corny but we "compleate" eachother it's a really good place for EP's to be....
I'm at school right now and we are about to get out, I will finish this thought when I get home
anyways, I feel utterly confortable around my ESTP he is fun to be around.
so you might want to talk to this girl further, ask her what is a matter with being your friend even know it might not be possible to be in a relationship