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    ESTP - The Doers

    In your opinion, what makes it hard to hold back from speaking your mind?

    Got in trouble for being "harsh".

    Initial thoughts



    "So, just impulsiveness then?"
    "But this is what I truly think, it might lose meaning if I rephrase it objectively D8"
    "Well how was I supposed to know that it's inappropriate to you?"
    "...I guess I couldn't really see it from your POV =/"

    How about you?

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    Unknown Personality

    because I really don't care when I hurt someone's feelings. :( Some people can't handle the truth tbh
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    ESTP - The Doers

    I do that, speak before I think, I actually do that a lot.
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    ENTJ - The Executives

    I don't realize if I hurt someone's feelings. And I don't see why it would be hurtful.

    Stupid people make it hard for me to keep it shut. Also this idea: "I won't know them in 15 years. So it doesn't matter." An after thought.
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    ESTP - The Doers

    I used to speak my mind a lot, but I just got the feeling that people were too badly annoyed by whatever I said, even if it was objectively really interesting and fun, so I eventually gave up and fell under the impression that most people want to find fault and pretend things are useless, boring or wrong. I need to find a new set of people and re-adjust (instantly if possible, gradually if necessary).
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    ESTP - The Doers


    I'm pretty harsh.

    Some favorite things I've said or say on a regular basis:
    "people who like shit that sucks, usually suck too."

    "Who the hell are you?"

    "shut the hell up ya god damn biscuit muncher"

    person: *asks a question*
    me: *grunts and nods yes*

    favorite joke: what did the blind deaf mute kid get for christmas?

    cancer.

    random person in high school: Do you have a pencil I can borrow?
    me: Do you have a face I can fist?
    random person: *shocked look*
    me: *gives pencil*
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    ESTP - The Doers

    Quote Originally Posted by DJArendee View Post
    I'm pretty harsh.

    Some favorite things I've said or say on a regular basis:
    "people who like shit that sucks, usually suck too."

    "Who the hell are you?"

    "shut the hell up ya god damn biscuit muncher"

    person: *asks a question*
    me: *grunts and nods yes*

    favorite joke: what did the blind deaf mute kid get for christmas?

    cancer.

    random person in high school: Do you have a pencil I can borrow?
    me: Do you have a face I can fist?
    random person: *shocked look*
    me: *gives pencil*
    Just to say that I really like that last one. <3

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    ESTP - The Doers

    I don't see a reason why I should hold back. I'd only change the words coming out of my mouth if there's a more efficient way to get my point across, whether it's a joke, a principle or an opinion. Misunderstandings are time-consuming and I don't like to waste my time.
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    ENTJ - The Executives

    Quote Originally Posted by Carmine Ermine View Post
    I need to find a new set of people and re-adjust (instantly if possible, gradually if necessary).
    good luck. i've been looking for years.
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    ESTP - The Doers


    Quote Originally Posted by elissabowden View Post
    good luck. i've been looking for years.
    Its hard. In my experience, look for INFJ's, ISFJ's, ISTP's, INTP's, ISFP's and ENFJ's. I've found they're the only personalities that seem to understand us. Butthurt seems to be a common theme with the rest of the personalities.
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