As an INFJ, I usually find myself only ever motivated to pursue someone if I have, well, "noble" intentions for us. After a series of repeat failures in which my intentions and effort were the best, I have decided to put finding my soul-mate on hold and start taking things a lot less seriously. The problem with this is that I have no idea how to be interested in someone not to be in a long-term relationship with them. Actually, until now, I have always felt guilty about it.
For instance, not two hours ago I met this (dyed) red-haired hottie who works at Home Depot and felt the urge to make out with her on the spot. I don't want to be in a relationship with her. She doesn't appeal to me emotionally, spiritually or intellectually. I just think she's hot and want her body. Should I ask her out on a date? Is that what people do? I've only ever thought about asking people on dates who I really dig on a deep level. Would a date be a waste of time?
Anyone have any advice?