[planesandtrainsandcars]

I hear this a lot from girls...seriously, pretty much any girl I get close to. The ones that go more in-depth about it tell me they really wanted my personality in a romantic partner. I was just wondering if this happened to ESTP girls a lot in general.

[njchick]

We are most like a stereotypical man's personality. I usually get the, "Your personality is not like other girls", from both men and women. I'm really feminine in looks but not in the way I approach life. Matter of fact, I have always found it difficult to maintain friendships with most girls. Too much drama, sensitivity, moodiness and crazy. I feel bad for guys having to deal with their crap. I just need the basics in life to be happy which I guess is attractive to other girls in your case?

[themartyparade]

They do. Two of my best friends have said that they'd do anything to get with me if I was a guy. Another handful (guys and girls) claim that I'd be the ultimate ladiesman, or to put it in their words "you'd get any bitch and all bitches".

I think it's cause while we're definitely more masculine (as NJ pointed out), I balance this with a feminine/girly touch, giving me the best of two worlds.

[njchick]

Exactly, I am in no way butch but I don't mind being the one who makes others laugh with my obnoxious humor and I like to compete but never in a nasty way. I just enjoy the game. Especially in business.

[laikta]

We are most like a stereotypical man's personality. I usually get the, "Your personality is not like other girls", from both men and women. I'm really feminine in looks but not in the way I approach life. Matter of fact, I have always found it difficult to maintain friendships with most girls. Too much drama, sensitivity, moodiness and crazy. I feel bad for guys having to deal with their crap. I just need the basics in life to be happy which I guess is attractive to other girls in your case?

Wow, I totally agree to you!! Most of my friends are guys. Even those close girl friends of mine are very easy going and not so moody.

[Navi]

I wonder what the ISTPs experience with this.