Like when they start to really fall for someone... how does the ESTP act towards the person?
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Like when they start to really fall for someone... how does the ESTP act towards the person?
Usually we know if we like someone pretty early. We like to spend time doing stuff and have a good time. We are fully capable of doing crazy stuff in a creative way...but we are generally not very good in the language department so even we are in love words doesnt come out easily. We speak with our actions so watch out.
e.g fixing your car, helping out to collect or doing laundry, giving advice, helping in analysing things, cooks for our love ones...
My husband asked me to marry him before we went on our first date haha
If you have an ESTP who is interested in you, I have no doubt you'll know.
He buys me everything. I mean EVERY THING. I can't even say the things I like as he WILL buy them whether or not we have money. He does his best to spoil me rotten. He of course is also spoiling himself rotten but I do come in a very close second.![]()
oh my god your man is a risk taker! before the first date! haha, gotta admire an ESTP's courage.
and like the both of you said, it's very true that the ESTP acts on a person they're interested in very quickly. My current boyfriend is an ESTP, and he asked me out literally the same night that we met for the first time. I was so taken aback yet so charmed at the same time! Actions definitely speak louder than words with them.... through enormous acts of physical affection but not as much verbal communication. Can be frustrating at times, especially when you want to know how they're feeling. But it's so worth itJust wanted to know that my estp guy isn't the only one like that! :p
It makes sense that with the ESTPs phenomenal ability to perceive people's motivations and intentions, they know when they're in love pretty early. I had an acquaintance that I've met but haven't really had a chance to talk to until a year later. I was extremely fascinated by her and told her about my feelings for her in two weeks. She still brings up sometimes how weird she thinks it is, haha!
I don't know if it applies to all or what.
But for me, I'll treat that person very well. Everything in my life is about that person. Whatever I do, reminds me of him. & etc. It's like hopeless romantic but not in terms of in a relationship. If you get my drift. :)

I act like a puppy.
When I'm interested in someone, I try to let them know I'm into them by the way I act as soon as possible. If they don't seem to get it, then I'll use words.
As for love...I become a hopeless idiot.
Full of a beautiful, intoxicating passion, warmth and energy...it feels like heaven.
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