The high dopamine leads to a weird form of hedonism and pleasure. Asperger's people get pleasure from things others don't understand and laugh in ways that to others may seem inappropriate. The high glutamate leads you to do what is called stimming behavior to calm down (rocking, snapping your fingers, ETC) Do you do that?
Ask yourself how you feel. I think Ts have to learn feelings. I have to ask myself several times a day how I feel and put great importance on it.
To develop your N, make a list of what could happen in your future and assess the odds of each possibility and see what comes true and what doesn't. Ask others about their percentages too. The most amzing thing I have noticed is that what people are worried about and what they should fear are so different it blows me away.
For example, people are worried some stranger is going to murder them. Most know that it is usually someone they know that is more likely to kill them, but the person most likely to murder you is you. Suicide rates are double the rates of murder in the U.S. and probably higher elsewhere. So your Se and Ti can help with calming the doom and gloom N we ESTPs sometimes feel.