I dont work for an ESTJ...LOL! If you only knew.
That ESTJ is the one that taught your father the beauty of the quote: "It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission."
And that other ESTJ - the one you work for? She's the one that keeps telling SWMBO to bend the rules and do what you think is best until you are caught, at which point you plead stupidity and ask rhetorically, "What was I thinking?"
ESTJs can bend rules with the best of 'em, when they believe the rule to have little merit.