I've always wondered this. I have many ESFP acquaintances, and they date many types of people. Stereotypically, looks are extremely important, and whoever is paired with an ESFP would be very attractive. To my surprise, that has not always been the case (though many times it has). Not that the girl/guy was plain ugly, but they were not the best looking thing on the corner. I've seen this happen more than once, including those paired with the ESFP guys. So obviously, personality does matter as well as looks-both are very important. I know many of you have a weakness for xNFJs and ISFJs!! Besides that, all of you are very well-liked, and you love everyone!!! You guys are very flirty, expressive, and open-book.
So mainly, what is it that makes your SO special from all the others that you date? What attracts you to him/her? How will you treat your SO differently from all of your other friends and acquaintances?
Another general question, what do you look for in a relationship?