How do you flirt?

**Digger Blue** · 02-15-2012 08:04 PM

Originally Posted by liza_200

It seems the way you ESFPs flirt, is familiar with the ENFPs?

Naw, we're more spontaneous.
Digger Blue

**armika_armika** · 02-16-2012 12:53 AM

Originally Posted by Digger Blue

Naw, we're more spontaneous.
Digger Blue

yeah I think we are. And I think generally we use humor more, like we're not as romantic as I find enfp's to be. I'm very straight forward. BUT, there's a big BUT:) which is, that when I seriously have a crush on someone, I tend to change, I become shy, and even quiet. So strange. I'm not acting like I normally do at all. But as long as I dont have strong feelings for the other person, but just flirty happy feelings, then I'm spontanoeus and quite obvious :P

**Pianoasis** · 02-16-2012 04:59 PM

Looooool ESFPs. I know a girl that's ESFP and this is my first hand experience on how they flirt: They are the biggest friggen teases in the world. They make a bunch of funny sexual remarks and you start to think "wow this girl is into me". Then they start to sarcastically come onto you and you're like "yep this girl wants mah bod" and then she completely turns it on you and you're like "wait wtf?" but you want more so you keep coming at her. I also love how abusive they can be, sorry I'm screwed up lol.

**Savvy Betch** · 03-03-2012 05:15 PM

This guy obviously likes you, and he's asking you to see horror films as a date. To me he's entirely obvious but because you're an INTJ you are oblivious to flirting.

**aphelion** · 03-04-2012 11:52 AM

We're dating now. He definitely had a crush on me :D
<3

**armika_armika** · 03-04-2012 12:41 PM

Originally Posted by aphelion

We're dating now. He definitely had a crush on me :D
<3

that's wonderful news! best of luck!!! <3

**Marac** · 03-31-2012 03:04 PM

Some girls mistake my friendliness for flirting, but most of the time I'm not.

Whenever I am, however, it is ON. I will be giving her the look (squinted eyes and a sly smile), speaking slower, moving in closer and I start touching her (a good "technique" I often use is to pick up her hand and stroke it, while still looking in her eyes. That is a fairly confident move which will create attraction and if she strokes back then you know she is interested and you can make a more obvious move (like placing your other hand on her check and push her towards you for a kiss). If you don't get any response back, then you can take your hand back and no one else (if you are at a party or a public place) will se that you got turned down.)