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This is a discussion on How do you flirt? within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Originally Posted by liza_200 It seems the way you ESFPs flirt, is familiar with the ENFPs? Naw, we're more spontaneous. ...
Looooool ESFPs. I know a girl that's ESFP and this is my first hand experience on how they flirt: They are the biggest friggen teases in the world. They make a bunch of funny sexual remarks and you start to think "wow this girl is into me". Then they start to sarcastically come onto you and you're like "yep this girl wants mah bod" and then she completely turns it on you and you're like "wait wtf?" but you want more so you keep coming at her. I also love how abusive they can be, sorry I'm screwed up lol.
This guy obviously likes you, and he's asking you to see horror films as a date. To me he's entirely obvious but because you're an INTJ you are oblivious to flirting.
We're dating now. He definitely had a crush on me :D
Some girls mistake my friendliness for flirting, but most of the time I'm not.
Whenever I am, however, it is ON. I will be giving her the look (squinted eyes and a sly smile), speaking slower, moving in closer and I start touching her (a good "technique" I often use is to pick up her hand and stroke it, while still looking in her eyes. That is a fairly confident move which will create attraction and if she strokes back then you know she is interested and you can make a more obvious move (like placing your other hand on her check and push her towards you for a kiss). If you don't get any response back, then you can take your hand back and no one else (if you are at a party or a public place) will se that you got turned down.)
I thinking fllirting comes natural for an eESFP.