I'm convinced my ex-boyfriend is an ESFP and I am an xNFx (trying to work out the rest of it) we were in a distant relationship for a bout 4-5 months. He constantly flirted with other women and when i was honest enough to tell him it bothered me his response was "when i feel something i have to say it, i can't lie", 3 weeks after he split up with me he got a new girlfriend which i thought was too soon because he kept telling me he loved me right up to about a day before he got with her and then out of the blue he told me he wants nothing to do with me which I am convinced he only said because his girlfriend didn't like me.
Recently though he has been almost going out of his way to talk to me and is acting like everything is rosy. It really bothers me and i don't know how to respond to it and get through to him.
Is this normal for ESFP men? Why? How do i get through to him?