Anybody in THIS boat??
If you knew what this was like as a kid growing up... jeez it was a PAINNNN.
the NT emphasis on intellect and calculative methods just simply did NOT register AT all and they kept bugging themselves about how they didn't raise me right.
Their structure and J order makes me insane to this day.
As a teenager it was at its worst - our priorities were at opposite ends.
Being the hedon/lazy/unmotivated geek,I didn't fit into what they needed: the A student , honor roll and all.
I never felt like I could talk to them - they wouldnt' know where i'm coming from or what my needs are.
On the up side,
I will say that being an ESFP at 22 growing up with this structure, has made me look into those types of priorities. I'm finding alot more balance in my life that i was taught.