My Fi is very strong, which created my isfp/esfp type confusion. My personal values matter a great deal to me. I cannot accept cruelty and violence in any form. As an example, many people justify war by saying that it is being fought to "protect our freedom," I see cruelty and horrifying violence. That violates my personal values so I refuse to accept that.
My Fi and Se are well-bonded so it's hard for me to describe one without the other.
I seek a peaceful, harmonious world... now, not in a future that feels too unreal to me. Hence, I am not an xnfp.