[downsowf]

You go to a restaurant and spend the entire time walking around from table to table talking to people you know.
Being at the airport 2 hours before the flight leaves is considered late.
You like going somewhere only if you know there is the chance you might bump into someone you know.
You greet everyone you meet with a big smile and inject a hardy laugh somewhere in there.
You shout someone's name across the room repeatedly and have no embarrassment about doing so.
You repeat the same thing over and over to make your point.

[Cool Beans]

Hahah all the other types are answering for us! Which is strange because esfj is a common type!

You know you're an ESFJ when...
1. You are super duper nice to everyone because you want everyone to be happy forever!
2. You don't understand when people are nasty to you (or others) for no reason because you just want everyone to get along!
3. You expecially love people that appreciate you for who you are! (Infp's! <3)
4. You don't like fights, but if someone is nasty towards someone you really care for you will fight for them (even if it makes you look like an idiot!)
5. You care way too much about what people think of you, yet you don't want to contain your annoying, excitable loudness!
6. You are usually shy when you first meet people, but once you're comfortable with someone then you go crazy!
7. You love to joke around and be silly
8. You put a smiley face at the end of everything you write on the internet!
9. You don't like bluntness and people that are too serious and boring! (I feel so mean for saying that!)
but for example, I don't like it when I send someone a long, enthusiastic email and they reply with one sentence or if I enthusiasticaly ask someone a question about them and they reply one word in a blunt tone!
10. You love little kids because they are so enthusiastic and innocent!

:)

[rd93]

When every other type answers for you, but is wrong

[rd93]

When every other type is a self-claimed expert on you....but is wrong

[rd93]

You go to a restaurant and spend the entire time walking around from table to table talking to people you know....
You like going somewhere only if you know there is the chance you might bump into someone you know.
You greet everyone you meet with a big smile and inject a hardy laugh somewhere in there.
You shout someone's name across the room repeatedly and have no embarrassment about doing so.
You repeat the same thing over and over to make your point.

And when other types say this, but are wrong. This is more like the shallow impression of an ESFJ. Well then again there are some crazy ESFJs out there, imbalanced for sure, so maybe.

Personally, I wouldn't do most of that.
ESFJs are often disregarded as shallow people. And by that I mean people who are lacking depth, are close-minded, accommodating, unforgivingly cheerful and full of ~*SM1L3S AND HAPP1N3SS AND JU5T L000VE T0 TA1K T0 EV3RY0NE3*~~ No.

I will give you the airport thing however. I am a planner for sure.

[rd93]

Still getting used to posting, apologies in advance if I don't quote properly

[rd93]

Hahah all the other types are answering for us! Which is strange because esfj is a common type!

You know you're an ESFJ when...
1. You are super duper nice to everyone because you want everyone to be happy forever!
2. You don't understand when people are nasty to you (or others) for no reason because you just want everyone to get along!
3. You expecially love people that appreciate you for who you are! (Infp's! <3)
4. You don't like fights, but if someone is nasty towards someone you really care for you will fight for them (even if it makes you look like an idiot!)
5. You care way too much about what people think of you, yet you don't want to contain your annoying, excitable loudness!
6. You are usually shy when you first meet people, but once you're comfortable with someone then you go crazy!
7. You love to joke around and be silly
8. You put a smiley face at the end of everything you write on the internet!
9. You don't like bluntness and people that are too serious and boring! (I feel so mean for saying that!)
but for example, I don't like it when I send someone a long, enthusiastic email and they reply with one sentence or if I enthusiasticaly ask someone a question about them and they reply one word in a blunt tone!
10. You love little kids because they are so enthusiastic and innocent!

:)

Extremely outgoing example of ESFJ^
...but I find that many are pretty sedate and easygoing people. No offense Cool Beans, just making a point

[Sinmara]

I know my mom is an ESFJ when I read her most of this thread while cackling like a hyena and she gives me this lip-quivering Mona Lisa glare because it's all true and she really wants to laugh, but laughing would be admitting that I'm right, and she hates admitting that I'm right.

She failed -- I just heard a snicker. Victory!

[Sinred]

...(if a guy) are a shallow brainless douche.
...(if a girl) are the most charming and beautiful woman ever to make you smile.

This may not be a fair description at all and i dont mean to provoke.
Im just talking from my own experiences.

[Hunny Bunny]

Not sure why ESFJ guys/girls could be so different to you. Maybe you are jealous of ESFJ guys? ;-P