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This is a discussion on ESFJ best match? within the ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; I am asking ESFJ men. Don't you think that EXFJ females are best matches to us?...

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    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    ESFJ best match?

    I am asking ESFJ men. Don't you think that EXFJ females are best matches to us?



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    The best match for the ESFJ is the ISFP.

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    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    Quote Originally Posted by ForsakenMe View Post
    The best match for the ESFJ is the ISFP.
    I was engaged to an ISFP woman, and it wasn't good experience! We ESFJ tend to be vocally expressive and want others to affirm us especially when we make efforts to make them happy. An ISFP woman has trouble expressing herself vocally, and that idea that she needs freedom and space doesn't go well with ESFJ's who usually want to be a half of one soul and prefer doing every thing with the partner. May be ISFP women have more interest to be in a relationship with a healthy ESFJ who cares a lot about them and try to make them happy by all the ways.

    I think we are more comfortable with EXFJ personality types when it has to do with long term relationships. with extroverted feeling, the partner doesn't have much trouble speaking affectionately. With Judgmental attitude, we fit more with the partner when our sets of values are similar.

    I am not so sure that what i am saying is correct but this what i learned from my experience with my ISFP ex.
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    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    Quote Originally Posted by ForsakenMe View Post
    The best match for the ESFJ is the ISFP.
    Sorry I'm not a guy, but I disagree.
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    I didn't make the official love match ups. A particular website said that, so I wanted to share.
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    INTP - The Thinkers

    Whilst certain types can sometimes be good matches, a person's personality is such that two individuals of the same type can be more different than two individuals of two different types.
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    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    Quote Originally Posted by ForsakenMe View Post
    I didn't make the official love match ups. A particular website said that, so I wanted to share.
    I know - I've read that somewhere, too. Not sure how the "experts" came up with that one! Lol
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    INFP - The Idealists

    The personality page thing says INFPs :3
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    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    My personal favorite types are INTP, INTJ, and ENTP. But then again I'm a girl ESFJ, what do I know? :P

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    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    Quote Originally Posted by snowbell View Post
    The personality page thing says INFPs :3
    Yes, I know about that. It's based on Kersey's statistics. They say that ESFJs best partners are ISFPs and INFP. I am not sure that ESFJs want to spend a lot of time with someone introverted. As they want to make their partners happy, that implies that they want them to speak about themselves in order to be helped. Besides, Most introverted types, especially ISFPs, don't affirm enough. I can assure you that this is a terrible thing when in a long term relationship with an ESFJ. In the other hand, ESFJs don't like people who don't respect social and ethical rules. They live mostly in the future and seek self development. I don't think that a Judgmental person would be comfortable with a perceiving one for long. Their impulses are sometimes unbearable for us.

    So for me, E fits E, and J fits J. Feeling can't fit thinking, that's why I tend to think that the best matches to ESFJs are EXFJs.
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