ESFJ - The Sap

I think the whole point wasn't to say that they cry alot. It's the same way that when i hear my ESFJ [?] friend complaining or taking offence constantly, i look at them and say "Whaaaaaa, whaaaa!" like a new born baby.
He seems to think life is designed to be unfair to him, and he will take every opportunity to remind people of it. NO one has it as bad as he does. (eye roll)
It wouldn't say he literally cries alot, but he's always bitchin like a bitch. Drives me nutz.

..on the other hand, i'm not possitive he's ESFJ. Any suggestions?

My best friend, friend#2, who really is ESFJ doesn't complain ever. He's a trooper. Makes the best of any situation. And maybe it's cuz we grew up together that we get along, but our types aren't supposed to like eachother.

Aww that was mean!
I'm esfj and I hardly ever cry about my own life!
I only cry in every movie I watch because I feel so sad or happy for whoever is effected!

And about the texting part - I HATE THAT! I don't like attention seeking, expecially like that! I've never done that in my life, but I see it alot on facebook and it drives me insane!
Also, when people upload photos to facebook and make the caption something about how ugly they are- that is THE most annoying thing on the internet! (yes, it even beats nyan cat!)

I do care alot about what people think of me, and I want people to like me... But I don't go out of my way to be liked, I just be myself and if people like me then that's awesome, but if not, i don't really mind as long as they keep their opinions about me to themselves!

:)

Originally Posted by Paul

I'm an ESFJ......sensitive but I don't cry. And....even though I don't cry....I see nothing wrong with anyone crying.....female or male.

I love you.

Originally Posted by Kikilith

This is very funny!

Well, I have to admit that I am a very sensitive person and I cry a lot - when I see sad movies, when I see sad movies with happy endings, when I see happy puppies, when I see sad puppies, when I see sad cartoons (and so on)...

But I'm not crybaby, I'm just emotional!

My husband is an ESFJ. Thank God for him because he does care and he gets that I do. That said, I'm tired of feeling and tired of hurting and desire to be an ISTJ because my dumb idealism has given me nothing but grief. So tired of playing the fool.

Does it mean that I'm not ESFJ if the OP made me laugh out loud? =D ;) =P =D