yes. Yes. Yes.I think people who are in the middle phase of getting to know me probably get that impression.
Knowing me a little means watching me be nice to people and make jokes. A little more, and then they realize I just treat everyone like that, and that a lot of my opinions on things are more about efficiency and tactical positioning. At the final stage, I think people realize I like everyone to be happy regardless, and the reasoning isn't quite as important as the fact that I actually do more good than talk about it.