One thing I've always wondered is how on earth people manage to stay in relationships. I have friends who've been going out for years and I'm in aw at the fact that they've managed on stay that long together without getting bored of each other.
I just don't get it. With friends, at least you don't see them very often or every second, so that when you actually hang out with them, there are things to discuss.... but with relationships.... Seeing each other all the time? Always having the other person randomly call you just to see what you're doing? Being married and LIVING together? How does anyone manage to do this without getting bored and in need to try something new? I honestly cannot understand.
Personally, I get bored of being in a relationship after about two weeks, especially when things begin to get repetitive. The most exciting part is not knowing how the other person feels about you, but once that's figures out, the excitement just kind of dies. Once things are repetitive, I start distancing myself usually without even realizing it until the dude goes 'you've been distance these past few days, is anything wrong? You can let me know if somethings on your mind, etc'..... Staying in a relationship isn't the problem, it's just being happy and wanting to stay with the person after a certain point that is.
Is there some type of cure for this? Or do I just need to find myself an extra eccentric guy who will never fail to be original? Can any other ENTP's relate?