Ok so i have a little dilemma when it comes to having a relationship with an ENTP guy (i'm INFP). It lasted 2 weeks and i know for a fact he only got into the relationship because i knew how to tickle his interest, however he did mention he is attracted to me but not that much to the point of having to commit to a stable relationship, let's just say he chickened out of it, and he admitted it.
Typical ENTP: tons of friends, tons of short relationships, very talkative but also appreciates silence moments, insane humor, self confidence up to the point of narcissism, likes the attention but also wants to have privacy, can read people very well, lots of mood swings, weird reactions and actions sometimes, loyal to his close ones, reliable, multi-tasker, etc.
I can normally tell when someone is sweet-talking, using me or lying to me, and he never gave me that impression, although his constant on/off mood-swings were a little difficult to put up with, because i didn't have the certainty he is in the relationship.
Anyway to make the long story short, he saw in our relationship the pattern of the other relationships he had had so far and decided we should end it before he disappoints me. Bottom line is.. i want him back, he mentioned there was attraction.. and i'm trying to see how i can spark his interest again.
My question would be.. what can i do to catch his attention in a crowd? We're university colleagues, he's 1 year ahead of me, but we spend all breaks together with our mutual group of friends (he didn't want to share the relationship with this group of people, but didn't seem uncomfortable meeting other people who aren't our colleagues)
What makes an ENTP question their decisions, or rethink them through?