So tell me what you guys look for in a man or woman. I don't want your idealized thoughts. Actually give me it all. The reason i'm asking is because my best friend is an ENTP and she wants to date someone really bad but when she goes on dates I find she is overly critical of the men. She is a beautiful, smart, and caring woman but she never goes on many dates with the same person much. She thinks there is something wrong with her that makes her unattractive to men.
ENTP aren't exactly flirt masters, they are better than INTP but not by much. I theorize she spends too much time analyzing a guy's bad points to actually loosen up. I know as a guy I need to see some sort of response when I am on a date. If by the second or third date I am not getting any indications then I am done. When talking to me about the guys, she always concentrates on their bad qualities. I rarely hear things regarding the good.
So what about you others? I want to hear your success or horror stories. Is this just her or other ENTP? Is this more a female or male thing. Personally I find many ENTP guys are players. This is of course a generalization.