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This is a discussion on Help me ENTPs!!!!!!!! within the ENTP Forum- The Visionaries forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by someonesane Really? You would love someone who got into a debate with your friends. The whole debate ...
Yup, bug him, but not in an annoying way... (contradictory?) The debating thing as def a +10. If you are a strong debater against me, I'll recognize you as an equal and give respect and attention where respect and attention are due. See the reasoning? Just don't pick a fight. (contradictory again sorry lol)
Lol. I am a great debater when it comes to certain things, but it depends on who you ask. When I think about it, he did seem more into me when I wrote opinion columns for the school newspaper. He told me that he loved my column. haha, it's just that he is so popular. People are always trying to communicate with him, and I don't want to feel like I'm competing for his attention.
It seems so impossible for me not to annoy him, because I can't act the way I want to infront of him. I heard that ENTPs find ingenuity unattractive. But I can't help but to become a completely different person when he's there.
haha, so you want me to start a debate without picking fights, and bug him without being annoying...gosh, I have a lot on my hands. lol
Yeah, I want to be on his radar, but I definitely would love it if he were nice to me again...the way he used to be. How can I turn things around from what I did to getting back onto his radar.
"Hey, I remember you being cool last year. Do you have a free period? Lets go chill somewhere." That might be a good start.
okay, before I even started this thread, I already wrote back to what he said earlier. This is what I wrote:
I just wanted to say that it was a honor being your friend. You were always very nice to me. You have a gift for verbalizing that I am sure I will never see replicated. I will not be surprised when you become president. I love what you have done with the school, and I'm sure no one can replace your legacy. Thank you for everything. Good Luck.
What do you think?
....what? Hey, hey, nobody said anything about sucking up. xD Don't treat the guy you're into like some sort of holy being. Show equal respect. High praise isn't something I would expect from a potential date, and frankly it would make me uncomfortable.
lol. It was true, if that makes a difference. Okay, okay, so how do I turn that around....It's too late for me, isn't it?
It sounds like you're a bit obsessed with this guy. Have you considered what you actually want from him? Obsessions don't make for good relationships. You may want to sit down for a bit and prioritize.
Goonies never say die! Just don't treat him like he's the son of a statesman from 1852.