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This is a discussion on What do you hate about ENTPs? within the ENTP Forum- The Visionaries forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Psyphon Can I talk yet ?? ;) omg...let's hear it already, you are going to bust through ...
YAY .... stir the pot ... rock the boat ... cut loose ... cause chaos ... try new things ... don't stop moving ... don't stop moving ... don't stop moving ... don't stop moving.
If you put yourself in situations that FORCE your Ne to work on overdrive ALL the time, and you tell that stupid filter that keeps it in check to "shut the hell up because Ne is the ONLY thing that's gonna get you outta this one" it WILL work.
And the in the in between times it'll just keep on working because it's so used to it.
PHEW ... was hard holding that one in for that long
..... oh .... and pickles .. that is all ... just pickles
The excessive use of "we" speak. Okay yeah it's sometimes used jokingly which is fine. However, it is also used seriously a lot of the time. For example if someone says, "We are selfish and unreliable," no we aren't. I am not selfish and unreliable. If you are that's great. Just don't lump me in there.
If I followed through with half of my plans I would be awesome enough to walk around with quite the ego. Sadly I do not and therefore, do not possess the skills, knowledge, or experience I should have to be able to dub myself as awesome. Mediocrity sucks.
I don't care to be around people with really big egos - that includes ENTPs with big egos. I don't care enough to hate though.
Disclaimer: I am an INFJ who has had very few relationships but ALL super long term. So what I LOVE / HATE about ENTP (men)
I hate how ENTP's make everything about them, like this post. Somethin tells me some lil ENTP sweet pea is gonna take the following personally as it might remind them of someone or some situation and they'll be like "shtupid kitty b*" then they might shake their fist in the air, eat some pizza, go watch sports, have a drink, then the post pops in their head again and they'll be like "stupid girl on that forum. just like that stupid girl last year ... " ALL ABOUT THEM. :)
So, being as it may. Let's start. With the EGO STROKE (my favorite)
I LOVE how ENTP's are smooth. They're caring and have AMAZING hearts. And they know it. As do I of my own. Only he's smart. He doesn't keep it on his sleeve. It's in his briefcase. I love how ENTP's are funny and intelligent and quirky but super confident and nobody knows the quirks - quite - like - me ;) Their determined and ambitious and charming and masculine.
I like how every serious relationship I've ever had was w/ an ENTP.
I like how they all become addicted to me.
I like how they inevitably convince me how we would be super together.
And, well, let's face it. I AM SUPER. So whomever I'm with ... IS SUPER.
I like how the moment I start to "bounce myself off him" (as my crazy infj brain likes to put it) and I become MORE AWESOME-ER than I already AM ... He gets irritated. NOT realizing that it is only because he was so super awesome to begin with. So rather than stroking his own ego, he turns into a baby.
I love how we debate, witty banter, childish playfulness but the moment I need someone to LEAD - he's a baby.
I lOVE how I am THE GODESS of EGO-Strokes to anyone whom I love and deserves it. BUT the moment I need sweet nothings ... He's *author has reluctantly decided to omit sentiments as it might be misconstrued as a soap box. with no soap* or is it .. "He's Bored". ENTP - in my experience, tend to be a sore loser. And yet, when I lose, I cheer him on for being awesome ... And when all is said and done, after I am totally and completely over the relationship, I get yet another ... pining entp. Who misses. His ego stroke. Oh Wait. Let's not forget the tears of how much they love me. So much so, that they fear I won't forgive them, or they fear I go away, or they fear they are not good enough .. and so screw it up ... over and over again. And SICK part about all this .... I WOULD DATE ANOTHER ENTP .. ALL-OVER-AGAIN ... BECAUSE I'M CRAZY.
sometimes I wonder - if an ENTP would see challenge as a chance for personal growth as opposed for a chance to win
he'd might win ... ONE (KEY)WORD -> EMPATHY ... (that was supposed to be in a whisper tone. all sarcastic like. but I'm animated and cute in life, so I get away w/it which just pisses you off. But I put it in caps cuz like seriously. Ya need sum empathy dawg!)
OK. THAT IS ALL.
THE END XOXOXOXO