I tend to like it. I don't really find it to be boring as I can either just relax finally and enjoy the peaceful vibes (stop thinking) or I can talk during the cuddling. The overly toxic romantic wordy crap is what kills me.
This is a discussion on What's the general view on cuddling? within the ENTP Forum- The Visionaries forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; I tend to like it. I don't really find it to be boring as I can either just relax finally ...
I tend to like it. I don't really find it to be boring as I can either just relax finally and enjoy the peaceful vibes (stop thinking) or I can talk during the cuddling. The overly toxic romantic wordy crap is what kills me.
I don't mind cuddling, as long as my thoughts aren't interrupted and it doesn't get too warm for me. Random people hugging me or touching me, now that I do not like, but a girlfriend and I cuddling I don't mind, if anything I love cuddling, just not for long periods of time.
I cannot do it when I'm hot or worn out from whatever. That whole "too warm" trend throughout this thread definitely rings true. Also, it gets boring after too long. I even need my own blanket sometimes. It's not that I don't like cuddling; in fact, sometimes I'll ask for it and within 2 minutes, literally say, "No, I changed my mind." My boyfriend thinks it's funny, God bless him.
Times I can cuddle include when I'm upset and need comfort, the last hour we're together before we part ways and won't see each other for a few weeks, when it's cold, or one of those special "I love you so much" days when everything's perfect and we happen to both be in an unusually romantic mood.
I need my physical space most of the time, though, so to compromise we just do one of my legs over his or even a hand-on-hand. I'm also really careful about where we cuddle. The morning of my boyfriend's father's wake, I went up to his room to wake him up and check on him. He insisted on me staying to cuddle for comfort, obviously, but I had to get my own blanket and cocoon myself because I was afraid his mom would walk in. I would've been mortified either way, but at least that way she didn't see us sharing the covers and assume the worst lol.
I usually do something else like watch a movie or tv if I am going to cuddle someone, so it doesn't get boring. Or if I'm just going to fall asleep, then its okay.
I HATE WHEN CUDDLING GETS UNCOMFORTABLE THOUGH.
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