Okay so I have inundated the ISTP subforum trying to figure out this insane non-relationship that I have this ISTP. We have been involved for about a year now. It has been the weirdest involvement that I have ever had in my entire life.
Usually I don't get in so deep with someone that I can't walk away when I am ready. And, usually I am in the driver seat of my relationships. Well, no way Jose' in this one. He's been in the driver seat since day one.
And, no matter how many times I tell him I'm done with him...I let him come back. WTF? I can't get him off of my mind either. Usually, immersing myself into projects and or new goals will help me to get over anyone and move on. But, not this one. He has really gotten under my damn skin.
It has been the most off/on, push/pull, hot/cold involvement I have ever been in. I'm not sure of his Enneatype but I am leaning toward either 6w7, 7w8, or 8w7. Also, when he took the test he split 50/50 on Extravert/Introvert. He acts more like an ISTP than ESTP though.
Has anyone else dated an ISTP? If so, want to compare notes? Because I'm baffled as hell. Or, if anyone based on MBTI/Enneagram knowledge have any insight concerning compatibility?