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This is a discussion on Female ENTJ Dating within the ENTJ Forum - The Executives forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by MsBossyPants Maybe I should change my name to MsSassyPants ;) Do eeeettt! Though that avatar is pretty ...
Yeah I've been told I'm "intimidating", "I wanted talk to you everyday but I get scared to" from extroverted, flirtacious guys.
"Sometimes you are super open about your feelings, sometimes you are super closed off. I'm confused" - my bad, I only talk about feelings when there is a problem lol. Only around my closest friends do I become very openly affectionate, when I'm sure they are the type to appreciate them. I do it to make them happy.
"What are your feelings on this?" "Any last words?" - when they are desperately seeking some sort of affirmation from me, or verbal affection. Oh dear lord. Oh yeah, my favorite, "why do you like me?"
"You are too intense" (I think they just meant that I was very direct with how I wanted things to be, and they don't react as fast I do). Also been called cold, opinionated, ambitious, bipolar, stubborn, crazy, overwhelming, blunt, no-nonsense, etc but also charming, sweet, sensitive.
"I feel like people either like you, don't like you, or aren't sure what to do with you."
After I *consciously* make myself tell them words of affirmation, guys end up falling pretty hard. I don't give them often, and I usually can go on and on about what I like about them, usually as a result me feeling pent up about them, observing long enough to notice subtleties about their character. Or sometimes I do it subconsciously because I'm genuinely in awe of how awesome they are, without actually intentionally to win them over romantically.
Yeah, if I were a dude, I'd stay away from me. lol
I've dated a lot of guys though (I'm 20), despite all this crap lol. They haven't lasted very long, due to all sorts of reasons (not all because I am a pain I promise). I appreciate the variety, but I am ready for something more significant. So yes, ENTJ girls do date.
For the right person, I would be willing to compromise to the best of my ability. I'd be all that they want/need me to be.
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I'm a senior in high school. Heterosexual. Where are you, how do I identify you, and most importantly, how would I go about attracting you?
Random note: This is based on my own curiosity because supposedly, the INTP and ENTJ type fit well together. MBTI has not failed me too badly in the past. Sounds like a fun experiment.