[Platinumbaby]

**Definitely Open to any personality type to share their views.**
No names of course, but I was curious to see if there are certain personality types that are predisposed, if you will, to clashing. Clashing to the very core where the more you learn about them, the less compatible you feel you are. (If getting any less compatible were even possible.)
Being new here I haven't quite figured out the official types assigned to people I generally clash with, but I have a firm idea of the traits in people I avoid because experience has taught me that conflict soon follows.
I'm curious to get a feel for what you guys think?



No offense will be taken for anyone who says ENTJ... as I know it to be a very strong personality type... and you don't get so far to one side of the spectrum without having an equally strong opposing force around somewhere to balance the scales. =)

[frozenchampion]

What you gonna do with the answers you have got to such a question?

[Sovereign]

I remember this on another thread not long ago, but I forgot where it is. So, I'll bite.

I am repulsed really by only 2 types: ESFJ and ISFJ. Their rapport talk, constant "help," and very subjective logic are the antithesis of my MO. I tend not to like those who use Si as their perceiving function anyway, but the Fe sets it off.

Other types can also grate on me (for example, SP randomness), but I can normally deal with it.

[Monkey King]

The easy answer: ESFJ.

But once the boundaries have been set, even ESFJs are good company. They're funny folks.

I'd say INFPs would probably irritate me, but the ones I know in RL don't. Which makes me wonder if they've been holdin' back on me. hmmm....

[Vanitas]

ESFJ. ISFJ is a strange case, either I'm totally repulsed by them or find them really likeable.

[Platinumbaby]

What you gonna do with the answers you have got to such a question?

I will likely use the information as a personal store to reflect on. Once I better understand the identifying characteristics of the less than favorable types... I can use that as forewarning to getting involved (or avoid involvement) with someone on a professional or personal level. I am not sure why anyone else collects information, or how they would use this particular subject matter... but my reason for asking, is strictly strategic. For personal use only. =)

[frozenchampion]

Competition is dead. Erased from the face of the history.

[Chipps]

ISFP. The whole getting upset and yelling and throwing a fit and then 5 mins later pretending like everything is okay. I hate that. I say what I mean and mean what I say. If i say something when Im mad I still mean it when im not mad. I feel like people shouldnt just say shit because they are "emotional".

This is funny because my boyfriend is ISFP and when we first started dating he would do this emotional yelling bullshit. Lets just say that I nipped that in the bud a while ago. Now he calmly explains things because he knows i wont put up with that shit.

[Platinumbaby]

I feel like people shouldnt just say shit because they are "emotional".

Oh Good! I'm not the only one that believes that! I firmly believe that people should never 'say' anything that they are not willing to put to paper and sign their name to. If you wouldn't be willing to do that, then you have no place saying it at all. =)

[Chipps]

I feel like people shouldnt just say shit because they are "emotional".

Oh Good! I'm not the only one that believes that! I firmly believe that people should never 'say' anything that they are not willing to put to paper and sign their name to. If you wouldn't be willing to do that, then you have no place saying it at all. =)

This is kind of funny because people for some reason have come to a general consensus that you are excused from your actions ifyou were upset at the time. I dont get furious often but when i do you had better believe that i mean EVERYTHING say to you during that time. One girl tested that once. I told her i didnt like her because of x y z and that i no longer wanted to be friends with her. Now i wasnt pissed when i told her but it had to be said. Anyway a few days later im talking to a few mutual friends and she keeps trying to join the conversation. I ignored her. Throughout the night she kept trying to engage me and each time i completely ignored her. Eventually she got the fact that i meant what i said to her.

Also, whenever asked to apologize for something i intentionally said. If i say "fuck you" i mean it. It wasnt some slip of the tongue. I didnt accidently say it. So i dont apologize. People get so offended. It so funny.