[Chipps]

Oh, an if your opinion wouldnt be changed by me questioning then why does it bother you? Its not like my opposition steals your right to how you think. Sheesh

[n2freedom]

What exactly does "to each their own" mean to you? I think alot of people have different ideas of it. Should people live completely unopposed by others? For example if two gay people got married and lived together and i disagreed are you saying i should say nothing about it? Im not saying i think this way but some people would answer no, while i would say yes because i defend other peoples right to believe as they wish and no one should be silenced. On the topic of gay marriage i think people should be able to get married, and that the issue shouldnt even be voted on, but i also think people should be able to openly oppose it.

Again, I said that I have a problem when overly opinionated people express their opinion as fact. I don't have a problem with people expressing their opinions when they realize it is just that there opinion. Confusing facts with opinions the last time I checked is illogical and irrational thinking. For example, when a friend of mine said that men like ugly women because they will do anything to please a man. First of all, that was her opinion, secondly she presented it as if it was a fact, finally it was a sweeping generalization.

I had a girlfriend that I told basically to go fuck herself because she habitually did stupid shit like this day in and day out. For instance, she said that if a woman asked a man for his phone number then she was aggressive. I pointed out to her that aggression implies something unwanted or forced against someone will. I told her I could see if she said assertive maybe. But, she then continued down the same path as if her opinion (which in my opinion it was dumb ass) as if it were some sort of fact.

Hopefully, now you get the picture.


As far as "to each his own"... I don't anything I have said implied that people should live completely unopposed by others. And, as far as the example provided....if someone did hold that opinion, why would they feel the need to say something about it??? How does two homosexual and/or bisexual people who want to get married and live together have anything to do with them?

I googled black and white thinking and now i understand what you meant by it. I was thinking something else.

Cool.

Also, i wasnt "challenging" your post i was just offering a different perspective.

If you say so, then ok.

Do you think youre above being questioned by anyone else? Are you an all knowing being? Do you know and see everything?

Nope, not at all. Your questions are loaded with implications, what's that about? I'm really baffled by the loaded questions. I simply asked you why do you feel the need to challenge people on what they post?

Everything you wrote was your opinion. Not a fact thus it is opened to being questioned since it is based only off how you see and interpret the world.

Last I check likes/dislikes (preferences) do not automatically translate to an opinion. For instance, I do not like Sushi is my preference. I think Sushi is nasty is my opinion.

What I stated above are my dislikes which are a part of my preferences therefore in my opinion are not opened to be questioned. But, I was feeling rather generous tonight and didn't tell you none of your damn business or basically to fuck off.

But, anyway....interesting..... If that's how you get your jollies, knock yourself out.

[n2freedom]

Oh, an if your opinion wouldnt be changed by me questioning then why does it bother you? Its not like my opposition steals your right to how you think. Sheesh

Classic bullshit maneuver. Really? Stop projecting and trying to discredit.

P.S. FYI...if you continue to start bullshit with me, I promise you I will finish it every time. Step to me correct and with your facts in order or don't step to me at all. We debate the issues and the issues only. I don't have time to play silly ass games with grown people. Kapeesh?

[garr3tt]

ESFJ 100% are the hardest for me to deal with. Well SF or SJ's in general, but I'm finding that the more I understand about MBTI, the more I'm able to just accept that they have a different way of thinking than I do. So instead of going with my "gut" reaction to some of the ways that they seem to go about things, I have to accept that they have a different way of looking at things because if I'm feeling a huge amount of frustration with them, I can't assume that they don't feel the same way dealing with me. Keeps me calm and conflict isn't as common with SF's or SJ's for me anymore. Needless to say this takes a lot of effort on my part just to keep things calm and balanced. But I think it's worth it. I don't need the stress that comes with arguing

[adizzy]

That's easy ESFJ. Especially one tht does not have a strong moral compass. Very interesting. I had a manger who was like this. I had no idea what I was dealing with...until I switched my job. DAMN! I think I could have tortured her with abstrct theoretical thinking. too late arrggggg!!!!!!!!!!!

[briesas]

ESTJs for me.

[Transcendence]

ESFJ and ESFP.

The first one fucks up responsibility and the other denies any responsibility.

[Owuguffu]

None of them in particular really agitate me. That's way too much generalizing IMO.
I take everyone on a case-by-case basis.

Although, I WILL say that the types I've had the most trouble with is were ESFJs and ISFPs. The main reason for that is that these particular people have had a habit of taking a lot of what I say and do out of context. Then they would get offended. That left me with way too much shit to handle at the time.

However, I HAVE met several ESFJs and ISFPs that I really enjoy being around. :)

[Chinchilla]

xxFJs if they have emotional problems. If they are relatively normal they are good people.

[Seren]

Interesting to me that the members of Personality Cafe have yet to even mention INTJs, unless I missed one. Usually we're the first to get chosen.
I'll tell you a secret: I'm irritated by INTJs. And yet at the same time extremely fascinated by them.