Hi all, I'm an INTP guy involved with an ENTJ girl for half a year, and we've both been crazy, crazy analytical with each other's personality. So I listed her shortcomings as I see them, and I read posts here, especially the "What pisses you off about ENTJs", and I think I've figured out the core flaw in ENTJs. Curious what you think.
Quite simply, they believe that the way they see the world is the way it is. So all the gripes about ENTJs being bossy, condescending, hypocritical, rigid, always believing they are right, never apologizing, difficulty sympathizing, proud, etc results from this. The other day I told her that we see the world not as it is but as we are. I'm not sure if the lightbulb came on, but I'll keep trying.