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This is a discussion on The ENTJ Relationship and Advice Column. Post your questions here within the ENTJ Forum - The Executives forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; 1- When you are interested in someone, how do you typically express yourself? The way i always behave but i'll ...

  1. #11
    ENTJ - The Executives

    1- When you are interested in someone, how do you typically express yourself?

    The way i always behave but i'll try to hang out with the person ASAP in order to put things clear with her.

    2- Do you take the dominant role and approach the person?

    If you mean making things happen, yes.

    3- If you are physically attracted to the person, are you very forward in your physical interest?


    Yes but i'll try to always be in control, the trick is to-be-in-control.

    4- If you begin a relationship with a person that is very physical can the relationship mature into more of a connection or will it stay at only the physical level?

    Yes but it mainly depends on what you and the other person want and if getting physical is what keeps her feeling attracted to you then keep doing that ;)
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  2. #12
    ENTJ - The Executives

    When you are interested in someone, how do you typically express yourself?
    I get closer and ask/ investigate things. I want to know more.

    Do you take the dominant role and approach the person?
    Most of the time, yes, or more covertly by allowing them to approach me.

    If you are physically attracted to the person, are you very forward in your physical interest?
    No idea. That depends, I suppose.

    If you begin a relationship with a person that is very physical can the relationship mature into more of a connection or will it stay at only the physical level?
    It never worked that way, but not to say it will never happen.
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  3. #13
    ENTJ - The Executives

    @Dizzle

    When you are interested in someone, how do you typically express yourself?
    This depends on where I am in my decision making. If I've isolated him and decided "Yeh HIM. I like him." I'm usually passive aggressive until the chances of him having feelings for me is high. I'm a teaser and it can come off as mean. But usually when it gets to this point of teasing--- I'm already someone that he's comfortable with joking around.

    If I haven't decided whether or not to go for it, it will seem like the person does not exist. Usually, this is the phase where I'm trying to kill any type of attraction because of x,y,z reason. (Ex. "I'm too busy for this.")

    Do you take the dominant role and approach the person?
    Even though I typically want the guy to be dominant, it rarely happens for me. :( I would drop big hints, create a situation where it would be the perfect opportunity for him to make a move. If the guy is still not getting it, usually I just blurt it out.

    If you are physically attracted to the person, are you very forward in your physical interest?
    No.
    If you begin a relationship with a person that is very physical can the relationship mature into more of a connection or will it stay at only the physical level?
    It will stay in a physical level. Especially when boundaries have been drawn. I once had this and did not expect him to develop real feelings. I was completely oblivious to it because the expectations were drawn in the beginning and he had not mentioned anything about wanting something more. If he had brought it up, maybe it would've been different.
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  4. #14
    ENTJ - The Executives

    Quote Originally Posted by Vanitas View Post
    Why the cupcake hate?
    You know what it really is for me--- It's the fact that it's messy to eat. This is going to sound a little too anal but the best way to eat a cupcake without it getting too messy on your face is to eat the icing first (by licking it). But then that will ruin the intended taste of the cupcake. (I can't believe I'm explaining this.) When I bite into food, I'd like the flavor to be evenly distributed. It's like ordering a subway and the person put too much onion on one side. So one side will taste different from the other. I tend to fix the sandwhich so the flavor would be even throughout. >_>' yeh. I know.

    Since I can't eat the cupcake without it getting around my mouth area, I refuse to eat it. I mean I could always bust out a fork and plate but that's not readily available most of the time.

    Probably one of the reasons why I don't like eating oranges. Takes too much effort to eat especially with all that peeling.
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  5. #15
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    my coworker smells like fish.
    I have a coworker that sits next to me and her station is seated near the door and I am there after her.
    there has not been a day that she has not smelled like it and when people open the door, I get a new wiff. how should this situation be dealt with?
    Last edited by Feral sheep; 06-07-2011 at 12:24 PM.
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  6. #16
    ENTJ - The Executives

    Quote Originally Posted by Aila8 View Post
    You know what it really is for me--- It's the fact that it's messy to eat. This is going to sound a little too anal but the best way to eat a cupcake without it getting too messy on your face is to eat the icing first (by licking it). But then that will ruin the intended taste of the cupcake. (I can't believe I'm explaining this.) When I bite into food, I'd like the flavor to be evenly distributed. It's like ordering a subway and the person put too much onion on one side. So one side will taste different from the other. I tend to fix the sandwhich so the flavor would be even throughout. >_>' yeh. I know.

    Since I can't eat the cupcake without it getting around my mouth area, I refuse to eat it. I mean I could always bust out a fork and plate but that's not readily available most of the time.

    Probably one of the reasons why I don't like eating oranges. Takes too much effort to eat especially with all that peeling.
    Ah thanks, I can totally relate when put that way, I don't eat oranges for the same reason. I was thinking fork.

    true or false? the best time to catch and have a serious LTR with a ENTJ is mid point at the height of their career.
    .. How to tell mid point when there's no agreed upon maximum height? Best time to catch an ENTJ for LTR is whenever they decide/ are willing to make an effort for you.

  7. #17
    ENTJ - The Executives


    I dont like cupcakes because they are so sticky. I cant stand sticky hands. Macaroons arent bad. And yes I wear gloves when cleaning everything and have a endless supply of handwipes in my handbag, car and home.

    @Feral sheep. Investigate it a bit further, determine if she is constantly eating fish or its body odor. Enter the door and say non chalantly "Hmm it smells like fish in here, anyone eating tuna." If it is indeed her. i would just put an air freshener around your section of give it a good spray. She might just get the hint
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  8. #18
    ENTJ - The Executives

    Quote Originally Posted by Feral sheep View Post
    my coworker smells like fish.
    I have a coworker that sits next to me and her station is seated near the door and I am there after her.
    there has not been a day that she has not smelled like it and when people open the door, I get a new wiff. how should this situation be dealt with?
    Dude, are you serious?

    Are we talking about fish as in fish, she just ate some fish, or fish as in, body odor fish? =_=

    I'd go with air freshner on max. If you bring it up it could be sexual harrassment in the work place. OR I'd try to ask the person in charge to switch my station because of a _____phobia and you need to be next to the door. >_> They'd have to accomodate your needs as an employee. Downside, you might be treated differently and you might need a medical note.

    I'd go with air freshner. The second idea is just too much hastle over some stentch.
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  9. #19
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by MisterD View Post
    do ENTJs enjoy macaroons or cupcakes better?
    What the heck is a macaroon?

    I love cupcakes. Innocent little cakes.. so delicious and helpless in the face of my burning HUNGER.

    I CONSUME THEM WHOLE.
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  10. #20
    ENTJ - The Executives


    Now if there were little enough to pop in my mouth, well then ok; no sticky fingers.


 
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