[Chipps]

I don't know guys, I'm starting to think someone should write a detailed "How to Date an ENTJ Woman" handbook. I think it'd be beneficial.

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I don't know guys, I'm starting to think someone should write a detailed "How to Date an ENTJ Woman" handbook. I think it'd be beneficial.

I think it should be titled Dating an ENTJ Women: You no longer wear the pants

[Chipps]

I think it should be titled Dating an ENTJ Women: You no longer wear the pants

I actually like men who hold their own. I don't like the idea that one party has to be submissive while the other is dominant. A lot of people seem to think that the D/s model is the only way two people can get along. Were all adults, we can compromise.

[bionic]

Yeah that is true, but I can feel when she isn't relaxed and it makes it hard for me to relax as well.

Well I cannot speak for her but I know for myself, that it's very hard for me to relax. My mind is always active and I need to constantly be focused on something for me to actually 'chill out'. I'm not a very 'in the moment' kind of person so even during the deed, it can be hard to chill out and just relish the moment. That may just be what she means by 'feeling restless' and if it's not hurting your bedroom time.... then it's probably just something indicative to her that she's letting you know about... as opposed for it being a serious issue.

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I actually like men who hold their own. I don't like the idea that one party has to be submissive while the other is dominant. A lot of people seem to think that the D/s model is the only way two people can get along. Were all adults, we can compromise.

Yeah that was joke! We actually make a pretty good team, I don't really see myself being subservient to her although I really like to do spontaneously nice things for her. For example we were having a barbecue at school and she was working across the road and I brought her over some lunch just out of the blue (I scored major points that day!). She does some really nice things for me, the other day she took a look at my resume and after calling me retarded a few times I had a perfectly presentable resume.

[n2freedom]

Well I cannot speak for her but I know for myself, that it's very hard for me to relax. My mind is always active and I need to constantly be focused on something for me to actually 'chill out'. I'm not a very 'in the moment' kind of person so even during the deed, it can be hard to chill out and just relish the moment. That may just be what she means by 'feeling restless' and if it's not hurting your bedroom time.... then it's probably just something indicative to her that she's letting you know about... as opposed for it being a serious issue.

I can relate to what you are saying....relaxation does not come to me easily. Not even during sex.

@Vatar....it is with time, patience, trust, and increased feelings that I begin to relax. The more trust and feelings I have for my partner the easier and quicker it is for me to relax. Hope that helps. I would say in the beginning...I'm not much of an initiator however as time goes on it probably levels out to around 50-50. But, this is all from *my* perspective.

Good luck with you and your ENTJ lady friend.

[bionic]

I can relate to what you are saying....relaxation does not come to me easily. Not even during sex.

I would say in the beginning...I'm not much of an initiator however as time goes on it probably levels out to around 50-50. But, this is all from *my* perspective.

Yeahhh... in all honesty sometimes I'm still thinking about something else during it... or fantasizing about something else to keep me mentally stimulated since I'm not a very sensory orientated person.

I'm not much of an initiator in the beginning either because I'm find myself looking for the interest of my partner and not exactly feeling confident initiating until our connection is firmly established.

[Nighty88]

Yeah that is true, but I can feel when she isn't relaxed and it makes it hard for me to relax as well.

Accept this. ENTJs in general need stress to operate. The general thing ENTJs like is getting the project to a succesful ending. Everything helping to get there will help an ENTJ relax

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Accept this. ENTJs in general need stress to operate. The general thing ENTJs like is getting the project to a succesful ending. Everything helping to get there will help an ENTJ relax

So once the initial "project"is complete the second round of "project" will be more enjoyable and less stressful?

[Nighty88]

So once the initial "project"is complete the second round of "project" will be more enjoyable and less stressful?

Elaborate, what do you mean with first an second project? whats the association?