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[Stephen]

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What do you ENTJ females prefer when you are in the bedroom? do you like to lead or follow? The ENTJ I'm with usually makes me initiate but if I get her warmed up and pause she pretty much attacks me.

[MsBossyPants]

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What we prefer is that you don't discuss the details of our intimacy with other people ;)

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What we prefer is that you don't discuss the details of our intimacy with other people ;)

It's ok she doesn't know about PerC :P

The real reason that I post this is she has told me she sometimes feels uncomfortable and has difficulty relaxing. I am trying to gain an understanding of what ENTJ females find relaxing during sex/foreplay and how I can better meet her needs. This isn't to say we don't have great sex, but I'm a perfectionist when it comes to certain things and pleasing someone I care about is one of them.

[MsBossyPants]

It's ok she doesn't know about PerC :P

The real reason that I post this is she has told me she sometimes feels uncomfortable and has difficulty relaxing. I am trying to gain an understanding of what ENTJ females find relaxing during sex/foreplay and how I can better meet her needs. This isn't to say we don't have great sex, but I'm a perfectionist when it comes to certain things and pleasing someone I care about is one of them.

It's not like there is an ENTJ handbook for this sort of thing. We are all individuals. This is a conversation you should be having with her.

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It's not like there is an ENTJ handbook for this sort of thing. We are all individuals. This is a conversation you should be having with her.

We have and she is pretty unconcerned about. I also don't want to be all obsessive over the fact she has a difficult time relaxing. However I am a neurotic INFP so it's going to bother me until I get it right. Maybe I'm just worrying about nothing I don't really know but I thought I would give this a shot. ^_^

[bionic]

We have and she is pretty unconcerned about. I also don't want to be all obsessive over the fact she has a difficult time relaxing. However I am a neurotic INFP so it's going to bother me until I get it right. Maybe I'm just worrying about nothing I don't really know but I thought I would give this a shot. ^_^

If it's not a concern for her, then obviously things are all good, up under the hood.

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If it's not a concern for her, then obviously things are all good, up under the hood.

Yeah that is true, but I can feel when she isn't relaxed and it makes it hard for me to relax as well.