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This is a discussion on The darker side to a ENTJ. within the ENTJ Forum - The Executives forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by DayLightSun That would be part of it.... ahhh fantastic, im not alone! For the good of everyone ...
On the more "dark sided" note I find that when I get to "that point" I spew out this list of faults that I didn't even realize I was keeping! Then it's always like, oops, that wasn't supposed come out! It can be really hard to retract because it's usually really personal and mean stuff (you are so weak willed you make me sick, your boyfriend is white trash, oh just nasty stuff). It usually ends happening after someone has pointed out a fault of mine. I don't deal well with that. Anyway, because of this I have been called judgemental more than once.
And some things I hear a lot from my mother and my ex-husband are "Nothing is ever enough for you" (well, duh, it just makes room for a loftier goal!) and "No one can ever love you enough" (for some reason when I get stressed out, I start to feel like no one cares for me). I don't know, but I do have a nasty side and it embarasses me because it's weak to let that out!
i've gotten pretty good about not snapping at people. It's mostly a, "really? i don't care what you think, not worth my time" thing.
Hmm, for me, I don't get cold when I'm pissed off badly. It normally doesn't happen, and I'm usually calm in my interaction, but if I lose it, I get fiery and destructive. It's like a mentality where I disregard every concern of my wellbeing and of future consequences, where I disregard all reason and logic and destroy EVERYTHING in my path.
To be honest, I really try hard to not let that happen.
After that stage, I think comes depression and I just don't want to get out of bed.
I once had a triathlon coach who was an ENTJ... he was always very careful with his words because he knew that if he said it the way he really wanted to, that it would piss people off [as i'm sure he has learned from past experiences]
I'm very careful too.
Yes sugar on the blood bath mwhahahaha
It's good sugar.