I've been dating this man for a while now and he is having issues with my "fickleness", as he likes to call it. So we had this conversation this weekend....
Me: "Don't you ever just wish you could be a seed in the wind?"
Him: "NO. I want to be a brick in the pavement."
Me: "I love you."
Him: "You're fickle."
Him: "You can't make a commitment and still keep your options open."
Me: "Of course I can! There's nothing wrong with waiting to see what happens! You don't know the future! I could get hit by a bus tomorrow!"
Him: "Oh so that's how it goes? I can't make a commitment because that guy walking out of KFC over there might shoot me in the head?!"
Me: "That's not what i mean at all."
Him: "MMM kay."
And yet he's still with me, so I'm not sure what that means. ? I love him so much.
(edited to add ** this conversation is not about a commitment like marriage...I'm sort of lost as to what sort of commitment he's looking for, which is the problem. Is it faithfulness? No problem. But it seems to be more than that...)