[Transcendence]

Well, if everything we said came out like on a text, then yes, we'd be VERY harsh.
But depending on the delivery, saying "NO" can be done quite politely.

[LadyAqua]

True that. I'm always on him about his nonverbal cues (like his tone of voice, rolling of the eyes, etc). He's been trying to work on it these last 4 years, but alas... he hasn't changed. And he probably won't, but I guess you gotta take the good with the bad sometimes. ^_^

[Monkey King]

See, I would, but he's just bad. He doesn't actually clean the dishes and he can't cook for shit. Same with cleaning in general. It's a classic housewife scenario where even when he offers, it's like dirty old dad that's going to half-ass everything. Which is fine, it's good life practice. And there's so few meals with serving sizes for one person.

Ok, lol then admit his level of clean does not come up to par with your level of clean. ;P

For the meals, I'd suggest he does preparation. It really sucks cutting veggies or having to touch and marinate the meat. ick.

[Monkey King]

@LadyAqua hahaha... yeh, impatience happens to me when I think something trivial shouldn't take so long to decide on. It should be no biggy though, just opportunity to tease for me most of the time. For example, "Dang decide already, I thought I was the woman here." Heh, poking fun at female stereotypes while emasculating him. hmmm.. only few laugh with me, but those who do, usually are showered with a lot of patience from my end.

[lilnesbomb]

What pisses me off about myself?

How about the inability to leave anything unfinished or impartial?

or maybe,

it's realizing there are very, very, very, few people who can grasp your attention for longer than a millisecond.

Alright, I mean this in the least cockiest way possible, but sometimes I feel like I'm on a higher plane than everyone else. Like I'm more enlightened than everyone around me. It feels like I'm a step ahead of everyone, especially in conversation.
And I'll just reiterate that I'm not trying to be narcissistic it's just an observation I've made in the past.

[kyroskata]

What pisses me off about myself?

How about the inability to leave anything unfinished or impartial?

or maybe,

it's realizing there are very, very, very, few people who can grasp your attention for longer than a millisecond.

Alright, I mean this in the least cockiest way possible, but sometimes I feel like I'm on a higher plane than everyone else. Like I'm more enlightened than everyone around me. It feels like I'm a step ahead of everyone, especially in conversation.
And I'll just reiterate that I'm not trying to be narcissistic it's just an observation I've made in the past.

I feel the same exact way...what a trip!

[Crono]

I think that the most annoying tendency of ENTJs is their tendency not to consider human consequences in their decision making, or, at the very least to undervalue such consequences. I also find that, though ENTJs can make cold, calculating decisions about what must be done in a reasonable way, because of their tendency to undervalue certain human aspects, they can sometimes make situations (unintentionally) into false dichotomies, when there may be other options. (IE If we don't make x sacrifice with certain people, we'll lose everything, when perhaps some kind of option where everyone suffers a little is also possible).

I actually find, in general, that once I come to an understanding with ENTJs (with usually involves a bit of a tug of war at first) we can work as a very powerful leadership force. It's just a matter of having the patience to earn their respect / tolerate their generally bossy tendencies until they realize that you can cover some of their weaknesses. (I'm also a little unusually open to conflict for an ENFJ, from what I've read, it's sort of a quirk of my personality that makes me tend to get along with NTs in general a lot better, I think)

[Transcendence]

What pisses me off about myself?

BTW, this is just a totally unrelated comment, but I actually don't think you're an ENTJ.
I think you lack the pride, the confidence and the self-assuredness of ours.

I know you're in a debate with yourself regarding that stuff.

[ariana20]

i work with an entj boss and what drives me crazy about him is when he says to me, you're wrong, you're wrong, you're wrong, you're wrong, oh.....yes....i do apologise, you're right
this happens sooooo often it does my head in i want to stab him repeatedly until he dies in a pool of blood
he is just sooo rude, and always starts off with the fundamental belief that i know nothing and he is right, simply because i am saying something which contradicts what he thinks , but since i think before i challenge people directly, if i am challenging him, i am usually correct and have something to back up what i believe to be the case, its just so exhausing having to argue over every single tiny little thing over and over again
it just happens so often and i am so sick of it and he is so condescending about it
also when this happens in meetings with other people present the other thing he says then is 'and ariana is absolutely right when she says XY and Z because' and then goes on to explain to everyone else what i have just been explaining to him for the past half an hour in great detail, even though everyone else got it about 20 minutes ago....arghhhh

[inextricable]

The thing I really dislike about you guys/gals is that you always have to destroy my fluffy bubble. :-)

ANd u hurt me too.