I understand using that frame of mind if you're telling a friend to get off their ass, become more proactive and determined. What i'm concerned about is some ENTJs applying this frame of mind to EVERY situation. For example applying this business model like way of the thinking to complex social issues. You shouldn't always overlook shades of grey just because it impedes your desire for progress. This can lead to an oversimplified view of the world. It's necessary sometimes to atleast understand the irrational world of emotions.Thinking in black and white allows less excuses for doing things. Gray shades are misleading and complicate matters more than need be. And yes, I like compromise so long as doesn't deviate too far away from the white.
I'm sure that you're a good friend haha, i don't think you're all bad people.