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    Enneagram Compatibility

    I have seen patterns between types and couples and I would like to know if other couples fit the pattern I have seen of compatibility between the types. Does anyone have anything to add?

    Here is a rough draft of who is most compatible between the types:

    1's with 2's or 5's.
    2's with 1's or 7's or 3's.
    3's with 5's or 2's.
    4's with 6's.
    5's with 1's or 3's
    6's with 4's.
    7's with 2's.
    8's with 9's.
    9's with 8's or 6's.
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    Type 6w7


    Why 6 and 4? I mean I like 4s got nothing against them, but I don't see the logic in a 6 finding security in a 4.

    I would think 9s would be a good stabilizing influence for a 6 (I like 9s), that certain kinds of 3s would appeal to certain 6s because they can be successful (which again, provides security financially or socially) or popular (providing security socially) ...or a 6 could lean on the "image" of a 3 being a leader in their chosen group or community (I had a six year relationship with a 3).

    2s also would make the more traditional or conventional phobic 6s feel secure. However, a 2 might make a counterphobic 6 feel a little too...doted on.

    I can also see 1s and 3s together.

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    Fore sevens:
    4's (we always attract each other)
    9 (they fallow our planes and most of my friends are 9’s)
    3 (I’m attracted to their ambition and their attitude)
    5 (we make great team)
    I thinks the worst match for me would be dominate 6 (they worry too much for a seven) and dominate 8 (they love to control but I'm attracted to them).
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    I think I could be attracted to 4s when I was younger, I don't think I could go with a main-type 4 now.. I agree with 3s, possibly 9s, healthy 2s but it might not be an initial attraction, phobic 6s, agree with the attraction to 8s but it might be too much
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    Type 5w4


    I'm a four with a seven.

    I've been attracted to nine and five. Didn't work.

    Sixes and threes have been attracted to me. It wasn't mutual.

    That said, I think instinct is more important in compatibility than e type.

  7. #6

    I'm a Five and could see myself with a One or a Seven.
    I'm with a Six right now, but the match isn't really natural. We have a good amount of difficulties.
    I don't see where three came from [for a 5]?
    Threes are the type I can relate to the least. I see us making a horrible match.
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    I remember reading on enneagram forum that the most rare pairings rae 8 and 3, 3 and 6 though the later frequently get drawn to each other but it usually doesn't work.

    There is a compatibility study linked in an article posted here which confirms some of the common pairings you noticed.
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    I'm with a 6 now but I think I could easily be with any type so long as that person was very self-aware and healthy - I know I have more of a predisposition to withdrawn types, and I find confidence very attractive.
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    Type 6w5

    I think any type would work with me (a Type 5) as long as we were both mature and healthy enough. But based off of my curiosity and the readings I've done, I wouldn't mind if I met a Type 8 individual and see how we would work in tandem. That is, if both he and I are at very healthy levels and were serious about trying each other out. Healthy Type 8, where are you? I'm reaching my healthy 5 levels, yo! ;D
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    Quote Originally Posted by SillaSY View Post
    I think any type would work with me (a Type 5) as long as we were both mature and healthy enough. But based off of my curiosity and the readings I've done, I wouldn't mind if I met a Type 8 individual and see how we would work in tandem. That is, if both he and I are at very healthy levels and were serious about trying each other out. Healthy Type 8, where are you? I'm reaching my healthy 5 levels, yo! ;D
    I've also thought a type 8 would probably be a good match. I find healthy 8's extremely charismatic and attractive.
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