I've been thinking a lot about this phrase:
“It turns out that an eerie type of chaos can lurk just behind a facade of order - and yet, deep inside the chaos lurks an even eerier type of order”
Relating this to MBTI, it describes the enfp/istj dynamic, of how enfps are secretly Neo-ISTJs.
We ENFPs are the 'even eerier type of order'...
I think we both have parts of ourselves that are orderly and chaotic but there's always that dominant preference.
Searching for equilibrium:
like, a Person A is order dominant and Person B is chaos dominant.
when they meet, each person finds the other interesting because person B is heading for chaos (something he/she lacks because she's Chaos), she finds that deep inside Person A's Order, lies a facade of Chaos that person B craves and would never be that way, so being with that person's influence, she may balance out her chaos and eventually be the 'chaotic' that she wants to be.
I think if you're orderly, that means you're more chaotic than me and i'm more orderly than you, but equilibrium comes forth when opposites are together and we fuse.
What do you think? That's why opposites attract anyways, right?
PS: This is not describing ISTJ relationships with enfps, it's more towards opposite personalities... But I confused myself on the way.